your past relationship

it's not easy to forget actually..but for me, i still remember my last relationship but it just the memories, smtimes make me smile. Not meaning that my relationship now is not good, it just hard to forget but still i know my status right now.

You're very right. I don't know what it is but I can't get over the past. I always find myself thinking about it.

Well when I finally do leave a relationship, it is already past over, so yes I really do close the doors behind me, I never look back. I do not even want to see my ex's again.There is no way I would ever remain friends with them after a break-up.It is time to move on to better things, you can not do this with excess bagage from a past relationship.You can not move on, livong in the past..

The past must be buried but not forgot ( forgive but not forget i guess). If you can't let go of the past, you can't really approach the present, never mind the future. I guess everyone of us even if they say and quite forget about their past relationship, they compare in a higher or lower manner the actual relationship with the ex one. Personally i always looked for something better than the last relationship, so that i can be satisfied with myself - and yes i know that only made things hard, but it was worth it, now i am finally satisfied with what i have. Take care friend !

"Learn from your past, Not live in it!!" My father told me this once when I was a child & it's one of the things that stuck in my head to this day... This may sound selfish but if the relationship is over, then I will take what I need out of the relationship & learn from it, then move on & forget the rest... "Those who forget the past are bound to repeat it" Some famous guy said that, I think... I don't focus on relationship but rather, focus on mistakes I've made during it so I don't make it again and also try to remember what works so I can make my current relationship better...

I would guess that a lot of people would not treasure a past relationship. I do treasure a relationship I had in the past though. Unfortunately the relationship ended through tragic circumstances, when we were still in love. I did learn a lot from that relationship: always be there for the one that you love, and when you meet someone who is on the same wavelength as you are it is such an amazing feeling. After that, I was in another relationship where my heart was broken. I never think about that relationship anymore, the woman in that relationship means nothing to me whatsoever. The woman in the first relationship is still special to me as she taught me a lot about what it's like to love someone, to be with someone, and to help someone through their troubled times. Maybe I'll have the chance to thank her for that sometime in the future.