finally found someone

Well you can never be sure that this love will last forever but here is something to think about that makes alot of sense and answers your question at the same time: you dont fall in love by choice its by chance; you dont stay in love by chance its by work; and you dont fall out of love by chance its by choice. I hope this helps. it helped me to look at love in a whole new light. i hope it does the same for you.

There are never any guarantees and no clear signs whether a relationship will last a long time or a short one so my advice to you is to enjoy the moment and not worry about whether this is "the one" or not. When I met my husband I was not even looking for a relationship and neither was he since he had lost his wife to cancer a few months earlier. But, we enjoyed each other's company, he made me laugh and we had friends in common, so we saw each other often. Things developed but they could just as easily not have. I was just enjoying being with him and having fun. As you get to know someone and he gets to know you, it will become more clear whether the relationship will be long term or short term.

Krisaea,Wecome to mylot. Well people say all the time that they found someone.When you meet a person, that you share things in common with, they make you feel good about yoursel, make you laugh, smile, you think you will be in love forever. it is just a chance you will have to take, have don't give refonds, and has no guarantees.It is just a feeling we have deep down inside of us, that says take a chance, this seems right.