cheaters

No, I would not say that. I have been in a loving, faithful relationship for many years now, and never considered cheating on my spouse in any way. The saying what you don't know can't hurt you is a crock of fluff that someone cooked up to protect themselves at one time or another. The truth is, even if our partner doesn't know that we cheated on him or her, we will still know. It will hurt our ability to communicate, to love and to trust that they will not do the same to us that we have done to them. Most relationships change, and not for the better after one partner decides to have a fling.

No I do not agree that everyone sheats, however it really is becoming comman place in our day and time.There seems to be so much temptation, and everyone is looking for a quick fix for what ever seems to be wrong with their relationship, so instead of fixing and working on it, they will go to someone else.I always hear this song on the radio "It ain't cheating til you get caught".Cheating is cheating any way you go. It takes a lot of time and work to cheat.But it does thurt the other person when you cheat on them, because whether they know about it or not, they will suspect it, because when you cheat, something will change in your relationship.

No I'm sure that there are people who remain faithful in a relationship. I would never cheat. It's just not something that I see myself doing, like ever. I don't like being the one to cause others pain. Even if they don't find out. I know that it would keep eating me alive knowing that I broken my promise to stay true.

I absolutely would not say everyone cheats. I am not a cheater and neither is my husband. And since my first husband was a cheater i know i would know. As for "what they don't know, won't hurt them" that is a crock because they may not realize what is wrong but they KNOW something IS wrong and after the first time they do know every time! Regardless of what the cheater may tell themselves to try to make it seem okay.