i'm so insecure!
By ynamorata
@ynamorata (51)
Philippines
June 16, 2008 8:23am CST
School day again and I saw her, my buddy the perfect woman, the intelligent, good daughter, good sister and the good friend. She's so perfect that everytime we're together it seems like I do not exist coz all attentions are on her.I've been with her for 3 years now and I thought my insecurities will go away, but the more I keep it, the more i feel inscure. what wil i do? I love her coz she's just the best but i hate the what i feel...really need your advice guys
2 responses
@painkiller77 (2073)
• India
17 Jun 08
the sense of insecurity that you are having is simply called as jealousy. and if it is your buddy, it is all the more. you say that she is perfect. but the fact is that to be perfect is heaven. but sorry, everyone is on earth. so forget about her good things. just sit back and think.try to find her flaws. even a single flaw you get and you feel superior and a lot better. go on and try this out.
@ynamorata (51)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
I'm not jealous, I know it to myself..I just have this inferiority complex that causes me pain. She is perfect for me but not literally, she's just wonderful that's it. Thanks for your comment
@generalmarcuz (279)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
I didn't know that you guyz also feel insecure over your friends. All this time I never felt insecure because I was always in the limelight and my best friend was always at the back of me. But now I feel so sad for him. I guess I have to be more considerate of my friend because lately I feel that he is getting insecure too.
@ynamorata (51)
• Philippines
16 Jun 08
I bet you're not aware of it. My friend might think that I'm fine with the situation, but deep inside I feel so low...the problem is not with you, i dunno who or what to blame, you should ask you friend, check him if his happy with the friendship coz that's what missing to me/us. Be sensitive
