Boyfriend throws his Grandmothers remains (ashes) all over the room.

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My boyfriend is upset at is mother who is 64 years old. She met a man on the internet from spain, she says she is in Love as he is in love with her also. Thats not the problem, she has been sending this man money, the first time it was $1080.00 wired to his bank, we are not sure how much more, but we took our computer back from her and in the Im's archive it shows that he has been asking since they met and the last one was for $6000.00. The man from spain is saying he is going to marry her and all that good stuff. So, my boyfriend has been trying to talk to her but she say's he just doesn't want her to be happy, or have a life. My boyfriend said thats not it at all, she could go out and meet someone here at church or anywhere but the internet. His mom also is saying this because he took the computer back and now she is unable to chat via yahoo. She bought a web cam and we found some really nasty picture also. But really he is more worried now because she is taking from her retirement, stocks you name it she is doing it. Now her bank account is overdrawn from overdrafts amounting to $800 or more. He told her he just thinks she is making the wrong choices in handling her money. Then the other night, my boyfriend pulls down his grandma's ashes and asked her why is she giving someone all her money and not taking her mother back home to spread her ashes like she was suppose to do when she got some money saved. Well, he said he would take care of it and opened the bag and threw them everywhere in the room. Said her mother would be so disappointed in her. But I think she would be in both of them. I've been in this relationship for 4 years now and I'm not sure what I should do now.