Do you feel you're smarter than your doctor?

@Kaeli72 (1229)
United States
June 16, 2008 10:13pm CST
I'm 34 years old and a female. I've only had about a year's worth of medical schooling under my belt, but I have an issue with my physican. When I was a child, I had these bumps on my finger and the doctor did a culture. He said it was a skin staph infection. Well, after the births of my last three children, I've come down with something that's left me with small pimples and boils. Isn't that pleasant sounding? I know! But, one time, my doctor said it was a yeast infection and whatever she gave me took care of it. Yay! This time, it's another story. I can literally watch the infections growing on my skin and they itch! I went to the doctors for this and they've been giving me such the run around. I've been suffering with this for over two months. First time I saw the doctor, I told him what I thought it could be. He wouldn't listen, but gave me something that helped a little. His assistant wouldn't hear what I had to say. Instead, she ordered nearly every test under the sun. So, have you known exactly what was wrong with you but your doctor not wanting to listen to you? Do you feel somewhat pushed aside because he was thinking he knows more about you in the 8 years olf his medical schooling than you do with your 18 years plus time on earth?
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@barehugs (8973)
• Canada
17 Jun 08
Every Living Person knows whats best for him/her. The doctor is working under a Great Handicap. There are so many things about his Patients life he does not, and can never, know. You on the other hand have Intimate Knowledge of your every Breath and Thought. If you do not agree with the Dr's Diagnoses do some research on your own. The Medical Information available on the Internet is Staggering. Try some different remedies. Think back to before your problem. What are you doing (living) differently now? Imagine what may be causing your disability. Perhaps a change in diet, or more exercise? Doctors have their own agenda. If you think you know what's wrong with you- You have the problem 9/10 solved. Go for it and Be Healthy!
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@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
20 Jun 08
The only thing I can come up with is my babies...the last three times I've had something like this was several months after having a baby. But, I didn't see "childbirth" as one of the causes for this weird rash.
• United States
17 Jun 08
I've felt this many times. I wonder how many illnesses go untreated at the early stage because Doctors don't have the time to genuinely listen to their patient's concerns. Alarmingly, I've come across many articles in women's magazines about people who went through months of pain with no diagnosis. Then again, medicine is not an exact science...but I do wish that their training would teach them humility and better listening skills.
@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Whoah, I love that last line you wrote..."humility and better listening skills"! You've hit the nail right on the head. This remindes me of a story I read concerning a person at the check out counter. The cashier took the time to listen to all his customers and made them feel as if they were the most important person on the face of the planet. Some doctors makes me feel that as they are looking at me, all they must see are $$ signs above my head and on my forehead.
@ruby222 (4847)
17 Jun 08
Sometimes a visit to the doctor can actually make you feel even worse ..the appointment is around seven minutes long,so you dont have a lot of time to say your piece in that amount of time,and then by the time you have blurted out the problem its then the Doctors turn to reply and nearly always its a prescrition thats coming out of his printer before he has even finished talking to you...now i dont for one minute blame the Gp but the guidelines that have been laid down are a little constricting for them and they are tied up with all of the red tape...but all in all they do their level best to cope with it all.
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@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Mine wasn't a GP...he was a doctor of Internal Medicine...
@Barbietre (1438)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Not all doctors are at the top of their class you know. But as for yeast infections, sadly they manifest themselves in many ways. I suggest a very thorough internet search. New discoveries are made every day, doctors can not keep up with all of it. And yes, I often know what I have before I go to the doctor. I have training in research and I also investigate things online also.
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@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
17 Jun 08
I have a friend who went to the doctors because she was having a bladder infection. He did his exam and promptly told her she was suffering from depression and prescribed some medications for her. Now, that's sad.
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@keeganw (13)
• United States
17 Jun 08
I know exactly what you mean. I recently went to the doctor for what I was pretty sure was Strep Throat considering everyone else in my family had it at the time. The only reason I was going to the doctor was for a note for work. I apparently went on the wrong day because I ended up waiting for about an hour and a half. Once I finally got in the doctor, who happened to be the oldest and slowest man alive, waddles into the room and asks me what was up. I told him that my throat had been killing me and left out the fact that everyone in my family had it, and sat back because I wanted to see how long it would take before he could diagnose the illness. Well he does the normal tests.. "Deep Breath, another deep breath. Breathe normal now. Hm..Interesting." And then commences with the throat examination.. He takes his nifty flashlight and a tongue depressor and "examines" my throat. To my utter dismay he states "Yep, you got some red bumps back there." Then he left the room. Came back with some Amoxicillin and sent me on my way. I wasn't thrilled with the "diagnosis." And I couldn't help but wonder how often he could have done that a day.. I guess it wasn't quite the doctor not listening, but I still believe he didn't know what he was talking about.
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@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
18 Jun 08
You poor thing. But, at the time, maybe there was an outbreak of strep not only for your family but every other it would seem. Didn't you say you waited for 90 minutes? Maybe the doctor (being so old) knew what to look for exactly. Did you tell the nurse before you saw the doctor what you were in there for? I see them jotting things down and sometimes, the good doctor will look at them, so if that's the case, he could have cheated just a little.
@bloglady (19)
• United States
17 Jun 08
I feel your pain. It is so difficult to find a doctor who doesn't think that we are all either liars or ignorant. I have moved a few times over the years and every time I see a new doctor they take one look at me and think I have a thyroid problem. Doesn't matter that I tell them every doctor I've ever seen thought this, doesn't matter that all the tests come back normal, just doesn't matter. Same with my cholesterol. Doesn't matter that I tell them I took medication for years with no lowering of my cholesterol. Doesn't matter that I tell them it's mostly genetic. Doesn't matter that I tell them it was 300 when I was 30. Doesn't matter that I lost 50 pounds yet my cholesterol only went down 10 points (to 390). There's more, but that's enough. I feel better just to get to rant about it. Thanks!
@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Dang, times like that, don't you wish you could just have your files and results of the tests be transfered over along with your medical records? Once or twice with the tests is bad enough, but over and over and over again? Don't worry about ranting...as long as you feel better afterwards. *lol*
@vanities (11395)
• Davao, Philippines
18 Jun 08
i guess the doctor knows best...yet we maybe know by experience but cant really pin point on the cure of it...but our testimony on what we feel makes it more accurate on the part of the doctors to diagnose plus the lab tests...if you dont trust your present doctor then try another or seek for second opinion..
@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Or, maybe they must have fallen asleep during the "skin issues" chapter in medical school. Sorry, I couldn't help myself. I've gotten a second opinion and she's sending me to a skin specialist. It would be interresting to see what she has to say.
• India
17 Jun 08
Actually many doctors now a days treat the patient as a body with a disease. There are very few doctors who listen to the patient fully. Listening is an art and the modern medical science gives hardly any opportunity to do it. Sadly many doctors forget to treat the patient and make him or her disease free or give adequate care. In our so called developing poor nation called India sadly it is also happening. Patients are unnecessarily pushed to go for so called routine tests. Just by using clinical acumen a lot of unnecessary examinations could be avoided. In US and other EU nations due to lawsuits doctors are doing defensive treatment now-a-days. The best advice is just change the doctor. Skin staph infection or yeast they all can be treated with one course of antibiotics and antifungals. If not then the doctor has misdiagnosed it. Remember the rule of thumb. Everybody can treat if they can diagnose. The real doctor diagnoses correctly that is why he/she can treat correctly. If a doctor declares the diagnosis for an infectious disease then he/she should be able to cure . If not it is a misdiagnosis. AAnd by the way staph and yeasts are present on normal skin also. So the site from which culture was taken could have been wrong also.
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@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Are you a doctor yourself because you seem ver knowledgable. After I finished the prescription from the first visit, the rash went away, but then came back and in a hundred fold. It went from just my hand to my arms and legs. Just as long as it doesn't go on my face as it did last time...I looked like the crusty walking corpse! Yikes!
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
18 Jun 08
Kaeli from what you describe I think you do have another skin staph again small pimples and boils, what else could it be. get yourself to a different doctor who knows what 'staph looks like and most really good ones do know. there is a lot of info on staph on the internet so look this up also. yes some doctors do not know what they should 'but that is not all doctors. do a little search for a top doctor.
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@Kaeli72 (1229)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Thank you. Since I wrote this discussion, I've changed doctors and have already seen her. She says it looks like ezema (sp) but, just incase, she's referred me to a dermatologist. Oh well, at least she isn't wanting me to do a gazillion tests.
22 Jun 08
I must admit I do after the month I have had. It appears that although my new doctor is very friendly and did run the tests I needed. She didn't follow up on treatment I needed after the results. Luckily I knew that I needed straightaway, and after consulting a good pharmacist I began treatment. It also really bugs me when they treat your symptoms but don't look for the cause. If you treat the root of the problem then the symptoms go away. I like many of the others responding to your question believe in healthy eating. I have noticed that my diet really does determine how I feel.
@Lock_Heed (210)
• United States
20 Jun 08
I don't trust white coats unless I'm in one,lol. Last time i went to the doc i told him exactly what was wrong with me and scheduled surgeory right away. That went rather smoothly, all the way down to billing.... Anyhoot, I try to avoid the doc unless i really really really and i mean really have to go. Find another doc and get a second opinion. Call ahead next time and make them listen to your concern, that way when you show up they know how to begin the conversation besides "how are you feeling today"?