perfect man or right man???????? what is the difference? who will you choose?
By mian_26cutie
@mian_26cutie (61)
Philippines
June 17, 2008 12:23am CST
Its hard to distinguish a perfect man from a right man. Perfect man from the word "perfect" meaning he's the ideal person and your dream guy. Girls always look for that guy.We always search for the best man for us.
Right man from the word "right" meaning he is the one!
God's answer to our dream, the other half of our heart. We cannot avoid him simply because he destined to be with us for a lifetime.
For me, I would choose a right man rather than a perfect man because I believe that God will give what is the best for me. Its a matter of love. If you really love the person you will accept all his faults, and shortcomings,listen to your heart and trust yourself.
Wait for the time........the time for your turn to be happy. Be patient , relax and enjoy while waiting for him....
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@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
with your given definition over the "perfect man" and the "right man", I'd rather choose the right man, or rather the right one.
but of course, who doesn't want the ideal one? well, I guess its a matter of who you love the most. and I believe that it is too hard to say if he's the right man. because we sometimes made a mistake on choosing the "right man..".. 
I believe for as long as that man gives you the love, comfort, security, and happiness that you need,whoever he is.. either "perfect man" or "right man" you should choose him. (of course, the feeling should be mutual.)..
and yes, I agree with you that you should just wait for that man to come.. just enjoy life, live your life to the fullest, and of course what's important is, ask God for that man and you'll never go wrong.
I believe for as long as that man gives you the love, comfort, security, and happiness that you need,whoever he is.. either "perfect man" or "right man" you should choose him. (of course, the feeling should be mutual.)..
and yes, I agree with you that you should just wait for that man to come.. just enjoy life, live your life to the fullest, and of course what's important is, ask God for that man and you'll never go wrong.@mian_26cutie (61)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Yeah, its hard.....but as long as you'll listen to your heart...you will never ever had a mistake. If time comes you've realized that your decision was wrong, just remember when we are inlove we just follow our heart....not our mind (sometimes)
what's important is we've tried our best to loved them. and the most special feeling in life is that-
"loving and sharing your life with someone who will loved you back and giving you hundred plus percent in return"......never stop loving because it is a gift from God.....
@zer0charly (5614)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
I agree with you.. just listen to your heart but of course with the help your mind..
love is a gift from God, no matter how we get hurt, what important is we feel love..
@mian_26cutie (61)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
yeah.....the main point is that, just enjoy the moment when we are inlove.........because it is undefined feeling.......we are smiling eventhough there's no reason to smile....
@fatima07 (169)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
Nobody is perfect right so we can't consider to say a perfect guy maybe he is perfect in physical appearance but we should consider those right man. He is right because you have seen those beautiful characteristics that you can say that he is the right person not just that he is handsome or watever. What you will do in handsome when the guy doesn't have good characteristics to be called that he is the one.
@mian_26cutie (61)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
For me, its a matter of maturity....maturity in finding and loving the person. this is very difficult to know if he/she's the right one....my only advice is...listen to your heart and try to look at things /people around you, because sometimes we are blind,we cannot see what's the real thing behind him/her. Sometimes try to weigh things and consider their opinions....but never ever let that oipnions affect you. This will serve as a guide but not a decision. I believe that we are matured enough to handle this things. Its a matter of believing and trying to figure out the message of God to us.
@holachika (176)
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17 Jun 08
I agree with you when you said God will give the "right" person that you deserve. You also mentioned something about destiny having a hand at picking the "right" person for you. I also agree that one has to be patient and have the time to enjoy and relax while the "right" person eventually comes along. If s/he's meant for you, s/he will come at the "right" time and "right" place. Right? :-)
@mian_26cutie (61)
• Philippines
17 Jun 08
yeah.."patience is a virtue".....while waiting, enjoy what life can offer to us.and if the time comes.... and you met him/her already, grab the opportunity to love maturely, and be thankful and cherish all the memories. Give your hundred percent effort but before you love others, love yourself first....and if the relationship ended dont get disappointed, at least you've learned from it.
