grandmom is hurting so bad!!!

@raclie (1732)
Singapore
June 17, 2008 10:23am CST
my grandmom is in the hospital now... i really hope she is ok... she is so weak she cannot even talk... or open her mouth.. her last meal was 16 days ago... because when she opens her mouth the pain will come again... the doctor said this only happens to 1 out of 1000 people... so why must it happen to my grandmom????? she is a really religious woman and if so, why cant god help her???? why must she have that pain?!!?!?!? why cant it be someone else!?!?!?!?! there are so many drug addicts and child abusers out there... pick on them!!!!! why must you pick on her!!! what the hell have she ever done to deserve this!!!!??? this is so unfair!!!! i just want her to be ok... i am not religious, but to those beleivers out there, please pray for her... even if i am not close to her, i really love her... every time during family gatherings, the place which is most crowded is the one where she is in... she is the pillar of our extended family, the pillar of our church.. i just want her to be well again and come home... i am just really scared now... i really dont want anything to he wrong with her...
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budin19
@budin19 (27)
• Malaysia
17 Jun 08
im so sori 2 hear that ur grandmom is hurt.. i pray that she will be ok soon.. mybe god want 2 test loyal servent like ur grandmom.. i hope u will not stop pray for ur grandmom.. wish her luck..
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raclie
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
18 Jun 08
if she is such a loyal servant shouldnt he be giving her gifts and all instead of giving her pain?!?!?! i think if god is something like that i will not want to beleive in him at all.. because this situation is really bad now... and she is in so much pain!!!
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tinamwhite
@tinamwhite (3252)
• United States
17 Jun 08
Awww Raclie...I am so sorry to hear that your Granmother is not doing well..although, I do not believe that she is being punished or singled out by God...our bodies are a temporary shell and I believe that we are all here for a time to learn something that helps us to grow on a spiritual level... I will keep her in my thoughts and prayers and am sending positive an dhealing energies to her... I hope that she recovers quickly... Blessings, Tina
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raclie
@raclie (1732)
• Singapore
18 Jun 08
thanks.. but i just want her to get well!!! yesterday was really bad.. she was in the icu... but she is in a ward now... so i guess it helps a little... thanks for your kind thoughts..
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Patsie Hatley
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
raclie my prayers go out to you and your grandmom. I am ' sorry to hear she is so ill and will pray for you both. Its so hard when your dear grandmom is so ill, I know how I felt when my own dear grandpa was so ill too. lets hope our prayers together will bring your grandma some much needed relief and bring her home safe and well to you. good luck and god bless.
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bombshell
@bombshell (11256)
• Germany
18 Jun 08
sometimes prayers helps if you believed that there is God! do you know why she suffer like that? maybe because she is religious and to proved how she believed in God!she will be fine soon dont worry.
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sashashimp
@sashashimp (115)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I am so sorry to hear that about your grandmother. It seems that you are very close to her. Just keep faith and she will be ok. I know it is a hard time right now but you need to stay positive for her and for yourself. Just being there is showing her that you love her and want her to get better. Hang in there and everything will work out best wishes and God bless you and keep you safe.
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Katherleen
@Katherleen (390)
• China
18 Jun 08
I'm so sorry to hear that.Hope you all doing well. Blessing on you and your grandmom.
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lynettebyc
@lynettebyc (2416)
• China
17 Jun 08
Hello, raclie, i'm sorry too, to hear your grandma's suffering in the hospital. Bless for her and stay with her as much as you can. Obvious it's not the thing god wants to see. We all will get old and functions of our organ and body will degrade, it's the natural rule, we have to understand this. Doctors will try their best to help her. And as a grandchild the most thing she want to see is that your careness and your happiness. She won't like to see that you're sad because of her illness. Try to talk to her, although she can't open her mouth and speak with you, at least you can tell her the things happening around the world, the funny incidence at school, she can listen. Just don't make her isolated from the real world. Then she won't feel lonely and she'll know that you'll love. Encourage not to lose faith and never give up Good luck to your grandma and your family **Enjoy life~~**
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