The one you love?..or the one who loves you??

I would choose to be with the one i love in a heart beat. I had a girlfriend for 1 year, while i was dating her i couldnt stop thinking of the one i loved. My girlfriend was crazy about me, yet i thought about the one i loved everyday, i finally left her after 14 months.

it will be agglomeration of both. if i love some and that person does not love me, its useless. in the other way round also, it will have no meaning.so both should be there.

I'd rather be with the one who loves me dearly because its more difficult looking for someone to love me than to look for someone to love. I may sound selfish but it is just practical. I can love anyone but i cannot force somebody I love to love me back so if i were to chose, I would have to be with someone who loves me as i am.

I prefer to be with someone who loves me instead of i love the person. It's because, we know the percentage of losing someone that actually loves us is way lower than the person that we love. And we know that person would never leave us and their love will get deep each day by day. I know this because I'm with someone that loves me so much - my current bf. Altho I'd make one huge mistake last time, he still stood up next by me and give me another chance. Well, this is just my opinion from my experience:)