should we lie in love

ryo if you cannot be honest to your lover, then you and he are 'not really in love or even like each other. My husband was my lover, and my best friend. and he and I were honest with each other as we had full trust in each other. we would confide things to each other we would not tell to anyone else because we knew each of us was honest and respected the other. this is the only way you can really love someone.

I have read, understood and thought about your question, and i cannot help myself to ask YOU one thing .. Would you like to be lied by the person you are in love with ?? Think about it ..

hmm i guess it's difficult to be totally honest. when we fall in love, we become vulnerable. as much as we want to be totally honest, there will be situations where we can't. sometimes it could be an old flame calling. to avoid misunderstanding, i'd just say it's an old classmate. or it could be a colleauge who is interested in you but you are not. it's kind of difficult to tell your partner that someone is courting you. especially when you spend pretty much of your waking hours with him or her. cheers.

lies in any relationship doom it to failure from the moment the mistruths are spoken. if you make the choice to be dishonest with a person.. you really shouldnt even have them in yer life at all.. lies = uncaring. its that simple.

Yes, what an interesting question! What should I say, knowing my lover is also on this website!!! Really, I think we are as honest as we can be with each other. We have our ups and downs. Our different points of view. So, it's difficult... but the more honest we can be with each other, the closer together, we will be. It really is as simple as that. Honesty has it rewards. If you hold things back, that you know you really should tell your 'intimate', it will make a distance between you and your life together, will not be so happy.

In my point of view, yes! we could be honest to our love ones or our lover.. Because I believe that honesty and sincerity is the best thing you should do to your lover. Through this your relationships will grow and even though there would be a case that you need to go far from each other for a couple of days, you will not think of any bad things about your lover because you certainly trust him or her.. Without honesty it is impossible to get trust and to be trusted by your love one.. I believe that trust is very important in the relationship because when you trust your lover there will be no problems that you may not overcome.. And to get this trust, you need to be honest to each other no matter how personal and controversial it is...

A relationship without honesty will always have a good deal of guilt and anger. I don't really know if anyone is capable of being completely honest, but we can try. There are also those couples that frequently "omit details", and those couples are not much better off than a relationship full of lies.