Have you ever wanted to say someone to shut up?
By Mahindan
@Mahindan (563)
Canada
November 3, 2006 2:04am CST
I am sure everyone here came across someone in a store, movie theatre or banks who was loud and really annoying, did you ever say that person to shut up? Do you think it is okay to say them to shut up? Where did it happen? what did you do? How can you politely tell them?
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9 responses
@maio19 (81)
• Thailand
6 Jan 07
Yes I have in various public places such as airport lounges, restaurants, cinemas etc. This maybe because of their different cultural backgrounds plus a dose of non consideration of others. I never tried to ask tem to shut up as this may lead to evenb more noisy confrontation.
@brokentia (10389)
• United States
8 Dec 06
No, I teach my children that it is extremely rude to tell someone to shutup...along with names, or the word whatever. All of these things can make a bad situation turn worse. In my house, if a child says something like this, it is called cussing.
If they feel that they must express how they feel to another person, I want them to learn how to express themselves with real words. Words that properly convey how they are feeling and that would not invoke immediate negative reaction.
@Mahindan (563)
• Canada
9 Dec 06
That is true what you said, most of the time it gets a negative respones back and it can turn into an argument. I have told people to shove it up their rear in a very polite way that they wouldn't realize what i said till they get home and think about it. lol . You are doing a good job with your kids. thank you
@baysmummy (1637)
• Australia
14 Nov 06
I am always finding annoying people who are loud and doesnt care about anyone elses feelings but there own, but very rarely do i actually tell them to shut up unless of course i am at the cinema's and trying to watch a movie and you get this person constantly talking and making it hard for you to hear unless of course it is a child because i even struggle to keep my own child quiet lol!
@sbeauty (5865)
• United States
11 Nov 06
I have, and I've done it. I generally don't consider it very polite. However, when I teach the little people, sometimes I've found it necessary. Although I 've used a lot of subterfuges to keep kids quiet such as telling them to put on their magic tape, I've found that some kids only respond when I just come right out and say "shut up". I try to make it sound like a joke by saying something like, "Would it help if I told you to shut up?" They aren't offended by that, and it usually works. After all, that's the only thing some kids are used to at home.