What really pisses you off?
By bellaofchaos
@bellaofchaos (11538)
United States
June 18, 2008 2:49pm CST
I mean it what really pisses you off or gets up your dander?
Is it stupidity?
Is it someone acting all nice while stabbing you in the back ?
Is it someone out wardly accousting a group of people just because of who and what they are?
Is it narrowmindedness?
Is it someone that uses their religion as a shield for the nasty things they say and do?
Come on what gets your dander up I want to know!!
Aslo there is a plus for me to this I find out and if I remember I won't do it. LOL!!!
So I'm all ears Have at it.
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27 responses
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
19 Jun 08
what really fries me is when people are judgmental and base
that judgment on the appearance of someone that they do not
even know. Its rude, and unkind, and seldom is their judgment
at all valid, and its points to the judger as maybe being a
bit of a hypocrite him or herself. Judge not lest thou be
judged is a good adage to stick to. I just wish people would
'follow it.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I so agree with you on that one. I hate when someone judges someone before they even know them..
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@taface412 (3175)
• United States
19 Jun 08
What makes me the most angry is when people do not use the brain that was given to us. I realize not every one is highly educated....but even that does not make a person stupid. A highly educated person can be just as ignorant as a person who never graduated high school...after all no one is an absolute authority and that is why we have complex brain that allows us to learn through the porcess of debate, and education, and filter out lies.
Most people do not use their brain this way...and do a disservice to themselves and others.
It is the thought that counts....no pun intended
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I agree that no matter what the education a person can be very intelligent and to waste that intelligence is a crying shame.
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@nosferatu07 (404)
• Denmark
19 Jun 08
People who act like they know it all. I hate lying in all sorts of ways and i really get mad when someone judges me even if they don't know me.
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@nosferatu07 (404)
• Denmark
19 Jun 08
I forgot one thing before. I dont like people who go around ranting about their sad little lives and depression. Yeah i can understand that every one can have bad times but dont push it in my face. That really get me mad.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I'm not fond of lying at all in any way and I don't think it's nice to judge someone you never know what they have gone through in their life and it's extremely rude.
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
19 Jun 08
Narrowmindedness that results in stupidity, hypocrisy and/or abuse - in any form.
And no worries bella - you are NOT ever guilty in my book of any of those.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
thank you and I hope never to be one of those. please shoot me if I do. I know I'm human and I'm going to make a mistake but I hope never to make that mistake ever.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Awww Sparks now you have me blushing and thank you luv I really do appreciate it. How are things going on the home front?
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@sparkofinsanity (20471)
• Regina, Saskatchewan
19 Jun 08
Not you bella, never. You are one of those rare people that learns from OTHER people's mistakes and shortcomings.
Hugs.
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@tessah (6617)
• United States
18 Jun 08
taking from yer list.. ive had my fill of niceties followed by a blade tween the shoulders recently. yeah, pisses me off. a55hole people who use children as a means of hurting someone else. ignorance with a closedmind and the desire to remain that way. the need to hurt other people for no other reason than to simply find pleasure in their pain. liars, discontents, sh|t take yer pick from any dishonoarble action.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
18 Jun 08
any specific example of the above that has got your goat lately.
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@NuclearRabbit (650)
• United States
18 Jun 08
What really bugs me is when people try to sway you with emotion arguments that contradict facts, logically speaking. Emotions can be faked but facts cannot be.
Or people who talk about others and all the 'horrible' things people have done to them, leaving out all the horrible things that they have done to that person and people buying into the "woe is me" act and refusing to listen to the other side of the story.
:MAD:
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
yep that really gets me to I hate when one side is presented and that side leaves out pertenant facts I have seen this done a couple of times on here. It just gets my goat.
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Well things like narrowmindedness, hatefulness and those triflin ppl who DO hide behind their religion and spew nasty venom...all those things get me riled without a doubt but the thing that REALLY REALLY REALLY gets me seeing red and ready to kill are ppl who mess with my kids...dont bad mouth or insult my kids, don't abuse my kids in any way shape or form, dont be cruel and hateful to my kids....and the list goes on..My babies have been through hell already in life starting at a very young age..and even though they COULD have turned out to be trouble makers, delinquints and so on they are EXTREMELY intelligent, compassionate, strong, big hearted and wonderful kids..DON'T MESS WITH THEM!
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@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Oh and the following also gets me riled
- abusers of any kind
- liars
- racists (which really could fall under the hateful category I mentioned already)
- self absorbed ppl who will do, say, act however they want etc to get what they want regardless of who it hurts or destroys
- chronic whiners who whine and whine and whine but NEVER DO ANYTHING TO CHANGE THE SITUATION (omg that drives me freakin batty)
- theives...
I'm sure there are more but I'll have to post them when they come to me LOL
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Yeah I have to agree with all of your they piss me off also .. Especially the kids one I'll kill someone over my kids. They are the only ones in this world that I'm willing to die and go to jail for. So you mess with them your messing with the mama lioness. Not a good thing for the people who have messed with them in the past and found out that I chewed them up and spit them out and then pissed in their wheaties. LOL!!!
@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Yep I hear you with those ones and they do get my goat too.
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@Angelwhispers (8978)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Bella I try and stay a reasonable person. I try and not let my emotions rule my brain and my moods. I simply can not tolerate small minded, narrow mindedness that I see sometimes when some one try to elevate themselves off the backs or needs of another person. It totally rips my mind apart.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I totally agree with you I try and not let my emotions rule me but I'm human and sometimes they do and that is when I go and take my alone time. But the narrowminded back walkers piss me off too. I also agree with LJ you are very reasonable at all times. Take care hun and thanks for responding to my discussion.
@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
18 Jun 08
I try to keep my panties smooth, bunches are not comfy..ya know?
But when things do get to me, it's an explotion...watch out...
I HATE it when I have to repest myself several times. For what eve reason, the person isn't listening, not on the same wave length, or arguing the same point in different words. That just crawls down my pants and gets the undergarments in a tight wad.
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@edgyk8inmomma (2157)
• United States
18 Jun 08
haha, dumb fingers!!!
That was supposed to be repeat myself..not repest myself...can I add it really annoys me when people don't use spell check????
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
sorry my spelling is horrendous. I wish mylot would get a spell check. LOL!! But I just was at a discussion that your first hate described. I have given up this woman can't even speak straight and changes the story several times and flits from one thing to another and never addresses the matter at hand. LOL!! So Yep I'm with you on that big wad in the panty department.
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
What really pisses me off is somebody smoking beside me. I am not really affected by the bad attitude of other people because I belive they are accountable to God for what they are doing but someone smoking beside me is something I cannot tolerate because I am a health advocate and I will never allow irresponsible people to ruin my healthy body just like that.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
My SO smokes and he actually smokes outside so that he doesn't have the smell in the house and because our daughter have asthma and are not able to have smoke around them. So he's nice enough not to do it in the house.
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@thaMARKER (2503)
• Philippines
19 Jun 08
What pisses me off is dirt and smelly place probably caused by uneducated people or some animals. When it comes to a person with character (hehehe) I don't like people who can't be nice to someone they dont know. Example scenario is if a person is in the customer service field of employmnet, they treat people as if they know nothing and they're better than what they know. HELLO..? It really pisses me off.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
yep that can be very annoying to have that happen and I hate when that happens to me.
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@guybrush (4658)
• Australia
19 Jun 08
I hate it when my adult children roll their eyes when I'm telling them something. I hate people who are unreliable or unpunctual and I particularly hate the way the media exploits so-called celebrities by printing photographs of them looking 'fat' or without makeup, or doing inappropriate things. I feel this is a gross invasion of privacy, and it pisses me off that so many people buy gossip magazines and perpetuate the problem.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I agree that the celebs should have their privacy I would hate to have the paparazi around me all the time. Now as for the children. I have 5 kids and and they haven't hit teens yet and they have already started the eye rolling with me. LOL!!!
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@flatlander (45)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Self-imposed ignorance,arrogance, disrespect,preudice,and most any other chosen self-destructive emotion,belief,or attitude. cause I have met some pretty samrt people who truly believe that whatever they say is gospel, allways right even when proved wrong!!! Like said "Dumber than a bag of hammers"!! Enough said bout this..
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Oh the little mrs or mr can't be wrongs those get me everytime I have a few family members like that. I just can't believe how they can be like that.
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@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Hypocrites!! That is one of them.
The other is people who hide hate and bigotry in Chrisitianity.
These 2 groups of people should be put down like old horses.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
20 Jun 08
So you want to make glue out of them. Hmmmm at least then they would be productive. LOL!! I know what you mean though and I have to say that sometimes I would love to shake these people until they are smart as my SO says.
@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
24 Jun 08
he says your welcome and you might like to tell them you'll shake them smart and then slap them stupid. LOL!!!
@skinnychick (6905)
• United States
24 Jun 08
Oh that's good I have to steal that. Thank your SO for me. LOL
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@gemini_rose (16264)
•
18 Jun 08
Too many things piss me off that it would take all day to list them all. I hate being stabbed in the back yes, hence the reasons I have no real life friends and prefer to come on line to socialise.
Drains on society piss me off too, my sister in laws boyfriend, has parents that believe everyone should do everything they can to help them. They don't want to go out and buy things for themselves they want everyone to either give it or lend it them. They are just one example of many.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
I hear you totally my ex mother in law felt everything was owed to her right down to my car that my dad gave me but didn't .. It was still in his name and under his insurance. But she felt when I went to Kansas that I should have fixed the car and gave it to her to use and let my step dad still pay for the insurance and renewal on it. when I said no and my FIL helped me move down to kansas she took my washer and sweeper grrr.I dislike no I hate this women to this day and then when I was trying to get child support from my ex she hide him for almost a year by continually saying he didn't live there.
@SomeCowgirl (32191)
• United States
22 Jun 08
I hate it when people call you something when they know that either they or someone in their family is the same way. I suppose that may be a little confusing, but let's just say it has to do with depression.
I hate when people act like your friends and then years later stab you in the back. ( my friends)
I hate when it's okay for your friends to change but when you do it's just so wrong...
okay I feel better.. Have a Great day.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Glad you feel better and your right if they are your friends they shoud be there for you no matter what.So I totally agree with what you said.
@cream97 (29086)
• United States
22 Jun 08
When someone I trust talks about me behind my back, when someone lies on me. When someone spreads untrue rumors about me all around. When someone says that I am jealous, when I am not! When someone tries to put me down by bragging about themselves.. When someone curses me out, for no reason. When someone says that I am not good at something, when they know that I am. When someone calls me ugly, when I am not ugly! when someone calls me a liar, when I am telling the truth! When someone puts the blame on me for something that they know that I did not do! When someone contradicts me! When someone insults me on how I should take care of my kids! When someone does things to get on my nerves that they know that I don't like! When someone tries to rule or control me..
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
23 Jun 08
here here to all of it ... I agree with you on all, that all pisses me off too.
@risris24 (712)
• United States
20 Jun 08
Ding, Ding, Ding - you guessed it - STUPIDITY!!!!
Dont get me wrong, I have a list of things that piss me off, but my number 1, is stupidity and it is quite funny you bring it up because I frequently have this conversation.
Some people are just naturally stupid and dumb (although it isn't very nice saying that), but it is true, and I am only trying to speak the truth here. Others however, act stupid, which I do not get, nor will I tolerate. That is my number 1 pet peeve. I cannot stand when someone acts stupid especially when I know they are not. More so, when girls who are far from stupid act stupid in front of a guy because they think it makes them look cute, it doesn't, it make yous look even more stupid.
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
20 Jun 08
I put it up there first because it was my number one pet peeve also LOL!!!!But I totally agree with you. I answered a discussion with what I thought may be a person who had some intelligence not saying she doesn't but she is unwilling to use it there for I was pissed off and decided to see how many other got pissed off at things that I have mentioned. Have a nice one.
@Kanesha1028 (154)
• United States
18 Jun 08
Everything really pisses me off. I get ticked off really fast. I need to learn how to have patience
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@bellaofchaos (11538)
• United States
19 Jun 08
meditation helps trust me I use to act before I thought with my temper but I have learned patience and control.