what should I do?

I know a friend who was as eager as you who really had herself and her husband undergo a lot of testing. They were OK physically and "hormone-ically" speaking. But as most people believe, psychological state of both partners matters because only when they have given up and left everything to the Lord that my friend was able to conceive. She is now busy rearing her child. I think you can talk to a medical professional and have yourselves checked or counseled. The more pressured you are in conceiving, the more difficult the process will be. Let nature takes its course and never lose hope. By the way, that friend of mine is 42 years old. How old are you? Good luck!

You guys take it easy. It happens sometimes. YOu first relax and take healthy food. Eat almonds every day and take folic acid.

Sorry to know that but please dont worry, I suggest you to consult Gynecologist and they will do some tests for both the partners and they will also ask you to do some medication , now a days giving birth is not a big problem , I am sure very soon you will have a child, trust in God nothing is impossible with God. God will help you out. Takecare.

This is VERY common - just ask your GP. Basically when you try for a baby it never usually happens, the trying part makes people try harder which ends up not working out how they want it to. It seems you're more likely to conceive when you least expect to, rather than when you PLAN to. There is only a VERY small opening in which you can conceive anyway, i believe it's approximately 14 days after your period so if you mis-cue the time in which you try, then you could miss your window of opportunity when you're ovulating! Also, you should be very grateful that you were able to conceive at all - a lot of people these days need to use other options to be able to have children at all. I have a cousin - his wife had to use IVF in order to conceive their baby, due to there being problems with her reproductive organs. My partner & i were together for 7 years before we were able to conceive so it took us a very long time, a lot longer than it did for you. We were luck with baby #2, we conceived very quickly with our 2nd child but the first one was the difficult one.

Hi dear first of all i wish u best of Luck and hope u will conceive soon and have adoreable babies(* tather baby as i know u r not allowed to have more than 1) other thing, go to gynacologist, she might be right to help u out, though some times it took long to conceive byt getting doc opinion is always best Take care

Ovulation makes a huge part. Find out when your due: www.americanpregnancy.org/gettingpregnant/ovulationcalendar.html This site has a calendar that can help you track your cycle. Good Luck !

It happens to many now a days. Not just for you. We too planned and planned for almost four years after marriage. I conceived only after that. There are so many factors that can be the reason. The first thing you ought to do is to consult a doctor and if you both dont have any problems, just relax. Even the stress that starts when you plan to conceive also will not help you to conceive. Take time out, go for a loooooong relaxed tour especially during your fertile period. All at the same dont loose heart that is more impotant.

You know its quite common and totally normal for a healthy couple with no problems to still take up to 18 months to concieve a child it doesnt mean there is anything wrong.

I had the same problem as you. When i talked to my doctor he said maybe we are trying too hard. Everyday lowers the sperm count. Every other day or every 2 days is better and increases the chance of having boy. At least thats what the doctor told me before i became pg w/ my son. We tried so hard for 6 mo. Untill the doc told us that. Then it happens when you dont want it to. As soon as my husband was laid off at work i got pg. Well all that was long ago. My son is turning 32 tomarrow.

You know the old story of a couple not having children and adopting a child after which they become pregnant and add another child into the family? I truly believe that stress plays a huge role in conceiving a baby. I agree that it may take several years for a couple to conceive, which is sad if they are so eager to start a family, but patience and time can work miracles. I have known couples who have tried for up to 7 years and eventually were able to have a baby of their own. I think one year may be too early to worry and stress too much. The stress will lead to further delays, which will lead to more stress. It's a vicious cycle. Try setting a different goal for you and your husband. Like trying out to experience other things in life that you wouldn't be able to do if you had a baby to take care of. And maybe this will help. Good luck!

I think you two should go to the orphanage and take up a child to bring it up.Or you may have a trial voyage.

We have the same experience with you. We have felt very happy and joyful. Specialy have a pregnant , happy life. How eager you are!