Woman prefers to talk while men can't have one
By anex08
@anex08 (868)
Philippines
June 19, 2008 7:39am CST
Funny it is. But its true, during engagement and before marriage woman promises his fiancee that she will never do nasty talk and will never nag. While on the other side, Men promise not to have an affair and will always be faithful and will treat his only wife as the only queen. Nonetheless, It falls the same, after a few years even months of marriage women started to feel her instinct that her husband is having an affair, while husband started to grow more irritable because his wife is a ruined tape recorder that does not stop playing. Husband say's its his wife's fault because she promise not to nag but then she did like an endless gong so he found comfort from other source. But women say's its her husband's fault because he suspect him from being unfaithful that's why she nags and continue to talk.
Who's fault is really is? who is incharge and who to blame with?
Have you had same situation like what's happening here?
4 responses
@mimpi1911 (25464)
• India
20 Jun 08
This is really funny but so very true!! Anex, I feel when we are in love we are so full of it that we do not notice the other aspects of our partners. We are mesmerised and totally absorbed. On the other hand after marriage we come out of the dreams and get real. we get to know that life is not all about love, the realities make it so different.
Having said this, true love, understanding and trust can conquer everything. And dear, we all have to go through the the downside of love. It but strengthens our bond. But we must never go over board - this kills it forever.
H A P P Y L O V I N G.
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@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
22 Jun 08
hi Mimpi, you are so sweet. I know the reason, because you are inlove right now.. Well, that's true and even though we cannot avoid such condition if it already happen it always been a great action to communicate with both parties. I love my husband and were getting through lots of trouble this days but I never think that we will end up separating ways. We still have that purpose to save , loved and continue being with our family.
I rather say goodnight friend, Im so sleepy now... tommorow again.
@chej18 (915)
• United States
19 Jun 08
Hahaha...Thats the good one! If things happened like that nobody wants to admit anymore.But i dont think in being nag the man is allowed to do such immoral things already.Communication will help the married life.Husband and wife have to sustain thier respect in one another.people when they get married sometimes becouse of too closeness and knowing all the secret of each other or what good and bad they becoming to comfortable to say a lot of things.A wife start to nag to her husband in not knowing it that shes nagging a lot already.But man can see a lot of women who he think is much better to his wife and be attracted to them and not knowing it that he is being on affair already just to give himself a little bit of happiness that he cannot have at his wife.But i dont said thats good.Cheating is always wrong!I hate cheaters too.But talking to her or telling her everything that you doesnt like in heartfull ways mybe she will understand.
Greetings from Che!
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@anex08 (868)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
Hi there, no one really wanted to admit who is right or wrong, rather they continue fighting and urge the other side to admit the mistake. Understanding, trust and communication helps build good relationship but if both parties are unwilling then chances are to have more fights.
Have a nice day!!
@masterdw (90)
• China
19 Jun 08
In my opinoin,if this things happen to you,it seems that ,you and your spouse are lack of communicaton.If you understand your spouse fully,you will never do nasty talk and will never nag again.Meanwhile,your husband with full understanding will try to help you you find out the reason and cool down.so ,just communicate with him ao more ao possible,best wish.
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