who is the real freind
By Talal159
@Talal159 (147)
Oman
June 19, 2008 10:30am CST
hi there,
how do you descibe your real freind? I mean what are the neccessary characterestics that should be in your freind
6 responses
@julietscreations (205)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
I have a friend whom I can rely on anytime. all I need to do is text or call her and she'll come running anytime, anywhere LOl! We've been friends for almost 2 decades now and we reached the peak of friendship wherein we can discuss anything, we can argue or even shout at each other but at the end of the day we still end up in each others arms and say: Gosh you just need a warm hug:) So that's it, our friendship is like a wall that cannot be shakin by the strongest storm. I can say that real friends are few but if we find one, we found a treasure...
@ann61285 (60)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
For me, I can considered a person a real friend when in times of challenges and sorrows in life there are always at my side to support me. A friend that i count through thick and thin. As well, who can uplift me personally to become a better person in this world.
@SueRod (238)
• United States
19 Jun 08
A real friend tells you the truth without embarrassing you, they are always loyal, they stick by you through good times and bad times, help you when you need it, and listen when you just need someone to be with you, and all these things and more without a reason but just because they are your friend. Well, good luck on MyLot.
@Kulit25 (38)
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19 Jun 08
Hello talal, based on my experiences, it's really hard to find a real friend.
For me, I would describe a real fried as someone who has seen me at my worst and loves me in anyway. We would tease each other and laugh at inside jokes, nobody but only the two of us understand... we'd feel safe enough to talk about anything and have the patience to work out disagreements. I can count on that person for she sympathizes when I had a bad day. She worries about me when I'm gone too long, and always welcomes me with open arms no matter what.
I think a real friend should have these characteristics: patient when tested, non-judgmental and accepts my imperfections, undertsands my weeknesses, encourages me for my strengths instead of putting me down, cares, gracious for my mistakes, open and honest to let me know my blind spots, and allows me to return the favor and do the same.
I hope this answers your question. Have a nice day. God bless! :)
@Emma30587 (402)
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19 Jun 08
for me a real friend should be someone who you can trust,have a laugh with and know that they will always be there for you if you need them and they will never judge you no matter what the problem!
@Hunnnydew (29)
• United States
19 Jun 08
A real friend is loyal, trustworthy, kind, and patient. A friend does not leave you stranded or abandoned. A friend picks you up and encourages you when you are down. A friend is helpful, wise, and gentle. A friend laughs and cries with you. They are honest in a loving way and keeps you accountable in righteousness. A friend does not brag or boast or put you down. A real friend is a treasure.
Blessings!