Why do girls avoid guys who really cares them?

I think that girls do this because they want to look and feel sexy. They want to have a man that has a reputation whether it be a preppy rep or a bad boy rep. The ones that really care for them and are sensitive to their needs are just left in the dust because those boys won't look good on their shoulder. Men play a big role in the decision by women to pick a guy. If the guy's group of friends are all softy sensitive then the girl isn't going to want to go out with them, if they are jock's or bad arses then they want to be with them. For the thrill or for the adventure.

The girls avoid the guys who really care for them to test their care. They want to develop Trust on us and like to test our affection on them.

Hi there ajithlal, Personally for me, I will hang out with a guy who can make me laugh and whom I am comfortable with. Maybe, these girls you are talking about happen to just enjoy with those guys....But, in some point, I know some women who always look for famous guys, maybe for popularity purposes too!

I think that really often quet often now a days and I am the same... and I guess it must be really hard to find the exact anwer for this.

the first question you had is also the queestion i have in my mind right now..and still i dont know y...i am inlove with a guy who dont seems to care at all and ignore or just i cant simply laid my eys on someone who do care for me.... i hope i knew the answer....huhuhuhu