My poor mother and father.

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My mother has been sick since she was very young with Bi My father has been with her for 25 years and never once used to even think about leaving her side. This time around it's hitting my father harder because my mom is less willing to help herself. Or even just doesn't care to help herself anymore. I have gone back home and attended doctors appointments with her in may and they have re admitted her. I feel horrible being the one to say the things to the doctors but my mom doesn't want my father around when she is near the doctors. I've come to find out my mom has been lieing and or delusional about the things that are happening. If she dreams it and wakes up she feels she is in the same dream but in real life. While I was there my mother woke up screaming that my father was beating her. He is not the type to hit anyone. She walked around the house all day telling everyone she talked to on the phone and net that my father was beating her. My father was out of town and thankfully I was there to prove it and explain what I seen to the doctor. We we went to the appointment my mother had told the doctor that my father had beat her and so on. I explained everything and the doctor had her leave the room. The doctor then told me about other cases that my mother had been saying about my father. I feel so bad for him having to deal with this. He loves her so much and wont leave her because of the kids. Well us kids are 22 and 24 now, and if that's what he needs or wants or chooses to do I will stand beside him all the way. Of course I don't want to ever see that happen as I was VERY lucky to have a mom and a dad for this long, but if thats what it takes to have both of them safe and happy then so be it. I have almost changed my opinion on things about my mother now that I see a lot more changes in her behavior, attitude, willing ness for help and so on. I have a feeling she will be locked away in the near future as she has threatened to kill our family, suicide and much more. I know it would be the best for her to have 24 hour supervision but then again I agree that she should have her free space. But for the sake of my family and friends it might be the best thing to do. Im so confused. My dad has finally started talking divorce the first time in the 22 years I've known him. I don't know what to think. I know what his family will say, but what about my mothers siblings?