When you have to leave the lover ,you will choose to hate or giving bless

I think if you truely love a person its unconditional. I think I would love them regardless of how the relationship ended. I may not like the terms that it ended on but I don't think that would make me hate them. Sometimes to love someone is to leave them, to let that person go. Just because you love someone doesnt automatically been that you are destined to spend the rest of your life with them. Sometimes the only thing that you do have in common is that you love each other. If thats the case I can love them from afar and give my blessings to them in there future relationship and life goes on.

for me, i will leave blessing for him to have a happy life. If I WERE THE PERSON WHO HAS TO LEAVE THE LOVER, THAT MUST BE BADLY SAD... But i would still love to give him the best, my best love

It's not easy to part ways. It depends in the situation. but for me giving blessing is not my cup of tea. When a lover broke up with each other then they both have the right to go on with their life even without the blessing of anyone. But it is also be nice to end up friends with each other but not so close coz it is unfair to their new partner.