Why is it so hard to let go of someone who is so dear to you?

you must have kept or retained some of his gifts or things which keep reminding you of him. just throw them away or burn them or destroy them in any way. it will bring solace to you. invest your time in quality things. hang around with friends, of course not mutual friends. the best one i would suggest is hit a gym. work out strenuously and enjoy seeing your body turn into a better one. it will then imprint body and figure over your brains, thus removing that dark indelible mark. all the very best.

its hard to let go of someone who is so dear to u because uv learned to love that person that's why u cant totally let them go with just a snap. it usually undergoes a process. a love process.