ever fall in love into a person but realized that you can't be together?

LOL. yeah, it was freaking hurt on your side. but like what I've said. it's you choice to get hurt. well, let's just cross our fingers, but of course, lets not hope for some bad things to happen. I really do understand how you feel. for it happened to me also.. he's my best buddy also, but its different from your situation.LOL. yeah, he fell inlove with me, and I do have feelings for him, but a bit confuse because I do have a boyfriend when he confess his feelings for me. but you know what I did, we chose to stay away from each other. we're still friends, but he has his own life, and so do I. I guess it is much better now, for I know that I've already stay away from the temptation.LOL. I don't want him to get hurt, and he deserve someone better.and I love my boyfriend so much, that I want to be fair with him and I don't want to lose him. and I also love my best friend (as a friend of course..) and I don't want to ruin our friendship. I agree with you.. we shouldn't get a girlfriend/boyfriend just for the sake of having one. and it's good to know that you consider other people's feelings before you enter into a new relationship. and who's that girl?..(LOL. sorry for being so curious..).. she doesn't know you yet?.LOL. she doesn't have any idea that she has a secret admirer.LOL. well, why don't you give it a chance..? go, meet her!..LOL.am I annoying you now.? it's ok. I am so glad that I gain lots of friends here..eventhough I can't see them, I am so happy that we can be closer just through this.. well, I get so entertained reading your comments. no worries about it.

I already knew that you'll be going to respond on this discussion.. well, I am a bit curious about your love life.LOL. I also feel the hurt that you are feeling every time I read every sentences of your story.. but you made the choice.. to stay with her even if your deeply hurt. I can't do what you're doing for her.. If I am into your situation, maybe I'll just stay away from her for I don't want to see my love with the other guy. well, let's look into a positive way.. see, you also feel that she loves you, but she's maybe a bit confuse because she can't let go with her long time boyfriend. (well, I can't blame her, 5 years is too long and should be cherish enough.. maybe she doesn't want to have any regret if ever she'll give up on it.) well, they are into a on and off relationship..hhmm.. that means, that in 5 years of their relationship, they still have lots of misunderstandings. and right time will come that your bestfriend will get sick into it, and maybe (let's hope on this.) she'll realize that its you that she really love and we'll appreciate all your effort, love, and care for her. (let's cross our finger.LOL.just kidding.) so there.. and I am also praying that you'll find the girl that will also make you happy and inlove. I know that you want your best friend to be that girl. but we can never tell.. maybe your patience of waiting for her will get paid of someday.. I salute you for that.. like what they've said, the remedy for a broken hurt is to love more..more..and more..

LoL. You probably saw this coming! Haha! Nonetheless, I'm happy discussing it with you. Hehe. And to have a female's perspective on my lovelife, I think it would help me out too. Hehe. I have made my choice and even though I get hurt sometimes, I am still happy with my decision. Recently though, she was supposed to go here in my place for our fiesta celebration, but she wasn't able to do so because the guy came over her place. Wah... Hehe. God, you could imagine how I felt. Hehe. Of course she prioritizes her guy over a friend. I don't even know if she still considers me as her bestfriend since we had a gap. I still consider her as my bestfriend though like what I always say hehe. Ugh... In a positive way... Yes, maybe you're right. I've had those thoughts too... Sometimes pretty dark thoughts that I'm hoping they would break up and she'll end up with me. hehe. But then I realized how selfish those thoughts were. I mean, I respect her happiness so much. I think I've mentioned how I tried to steal her before. hehe. But I stopped since it's really against my nature to do so. When you said "let's cross our fingers, LoL just kidding." it made me laugh.Somehow I feel that you understand me. To tell you the truth I've actually dated others but it didn't work out. It's either I hold back because I still love her or the girl I date doesn't like me. hehe. I've been trying to find someone else but luck isn't on my side yet. If I had been inconsiderate or heartless, I would have been through a lot of relationships by now, those kind wherein I don't really love or like the person. I wouldn't want that kind of relationship, I wouldn't go for someone just for the sake of having a girlfriend. But right now, I actually have my eyes on someone now, but she doesn't know me yet. I'm working my way towards meeting her. I really like her. I hope it goes well for me. Even though I still love my bestfriend, my heart is open, waiting for someone to come along. Thanks for everything! You're actually one of my closest friends here, I'm glad I met you. I'm sorry for the long comment. LoL.

I think you've mentioned that on one of my topics. and it was so sad, that even if you really love each but she already has a partner, you really need to accept that you really can't be together.. sorry, I don't have any Idea that you have topic just like mine. I'll better check on yours. thanks for informing me.

yeah, I agree with you..you will feel the true essense of love if you will get hurt.. you should know how to embrace life.

LOL ^_^ That's life.. Without heartbreaks and love, there's no much meaning in life too.. PLus experience, it all plays a part of life too ^_^ hehe

yeah.. it isn't possible, not unless you wanted to ruin a relationship.. but that's not good after all..

Yes, of course. It always happens. Actually, You fall in love so much, that you think that the person is talking behind your back or his lying to you. You think about it all night, you dream about it. You even make nightmares about it! It happens, So if this happens to you. Don't worry! You are not the only one. If you never fell in love, It's alright, it will happen with the right person! You will love him/her... And Marry them! I personally don't want to get married to early, Because I don't believe in a second marriage. So if you love that person, you think she/he is the best for you. Go ahead.

hhhmm.. I've already fell in love, and I love the person I am with right now.. and I thank God that I found him.. he saves me from the loneliness that I am feeling that moment I am inlove with the person whose already committed to.

sorry if I got it all wrong.. so you haven't give him enough time? is that what you mean?

I know that money is important when it comes on having family, but we shouldn't let money destroys us, our relationship with our partner. good thing nothing happens to the both you. I guess that situation only tested your love your partner..

It was not only the money it was showing me that he cares. MY hubby was not available to me. He would close himself to me. I was for a lot of years very lonely. I did not act on my wants. I got busy with my own life raising the children and working. It turns out now he is slowing down and wanting to join my life.

i agree..

yeah, letting go isn't that easy.. some will take them for about a year or two.

well, I can't agree with: -adult fall in love with a younger one and vice versa and ; -long distance relationship.. I don't see anything wrong with that, for as long they love each other and never hurt anybody, why can't be together?..just my opinion.

yeah, I agree with you. and I am hoping that the right man will come into your life.

yeah, I agree with you..when it comes to love, always consider what your heart and your mind says. it's good to know that you're already remerried.

LOL. I think you mean crushes?

yeah, and I am so thankful for he came into my life.

why does money get to be involve when it comes to love.. it was so sad to hear from you.

well, maybe you ask her for that.. and she's the only girl who can answer your question..

so why you two can't be together?

yeah, that's right girl. I know the reason on why don't have feelings for that guy anymore..and it's because you are truly inlove with your partner. just like me.

well, maybe you do have so many indifferences. you still love that person and yet, you already have someone?.. just asking though.

what's the reason on why you ended up your feelings for each other?

]wow.. never say die.. fight!figh! LOL. just kidding. well I guess it really depends upon the situation you are upto.

I agree with you.. and will keep you wondering on why he can't love.

I know that it will happen soon. patience is a virtue.. the right girl will come into your life soon.