disagreement, dispute,mis-understanding

June 20, 2008 4:13am CST
if you had a disagreeement with a close friend, or u were mis-understood, how would u go about handling it? Keep quiet, and let things take its course...?
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6 responses
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
Yeah.. i basically just let it be because i am one who do not like confrontations.
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• United States
21 Jun 08
ive made all my new friends promise me that if i did something to piss them off or hurt them to tell me right away so i know.. cant fix what you dont know you did right?? that way there is no building up of emotions to where something small ends a friendship and the confrontation if there is any is less or non existant
@salonga (27775)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
No, I don't keep quiet, I go out of my way to discuss the issue with her. It's a healthy attitude. It's better that way than hold grudges. I think by pouring out your heart, and by exchange of explanations, you will end up forgiving each other.
21 Jun 08
If thatis the way you solve yuur problems... then that is the right way..go ahead.. Iam sure you must be having a good number of good friends...
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@subha12 (18441)
• India
20 Jun 08
I have stopped taking any effort. now i have a doubt in word friendship the way my so called Best friend cheated me, i am doubtful still it is there, so i am noty with that much friend with some.
@excellence7 (3655)
• Mauritius
15 Jul 08
When I have disagreement with my love, I don't know why I can't control my anger and burst out my anger on her :( But after much time, I feel guilty and I talk to her well. This make her cries at times and so do I. I then pamper her lots because I love her extremely.
@richiem (3644)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
I would be willing to talk to my friend if I am the one who had done him wrong. But if he is the one who had done me wrong, I guess I will wait for him to talk to me. I want him to feel that it is his obligation to fix what he has broken.
@naseeha (1382)
• India
15 Jul 08
I always fight it out. I rather like to resolve my disputes with friends. Moreover if we keep quiet about it the problem will become bigger and bigger and the misunderstanding will be growing. So i feel it is better to talk it out and explain things. I have few friends and i dont normally have fights with them. Even if i do i talk it over with them. happy mylotting .