have you ever say "i love you" and not meant it?

China
June 20, 2008 6:54am CST
i treat those words like i do my promises...i never say it unless i mean it with all my heart and i never make a promise unless i can keep it
11 responses
@angelamp (241)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
i have never said those words to someone and never meant them... i haven't really been honestly in love so i wasn't faced with such a situation yet. anyway, i've said i love you to my niece a lot of times and all those times i really meant what i said.
@joliefille (3690)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
No, I haven't. I feel bad if I say it and not mean it. It's also unfair to the other person. I just might be leading him on. Even if I know that I love him, I still wait it out until it's the right time to tell him.
@jeiyah_12 (1041)
• Philippines
21 Jun 08
Yes, I have done it, 2 years ago to be exact. There once this guy who I thought was the right one for me. I thought he's nice, and my feelings was confused that time that I can't differentiate what's love and like. I said I love you to him, but I actually didn't mean it serious I thought he'll just make it as a joke but... He said he love me too. After that we became mutual understanding mates, not boy friend cause I really don't want any commitment that time and I got a lot of personal problems to solve. Until such time, he cheated on me and I have proved to myself that it is my pride that was hurt and not my heart. And I finally realized I never love him, I just thought I did.
• Philippines
21 Jun 08
yeah i did, but that was before.. i said to a person i didnt really love.. it was some sort of forced act.. his friends were telling me to tell him that i love him even though i dont really mean it.. i regret why i did it, but it already happened.. im just glad that until now we still remained friends after a lie i said before..
• Philippines
21 Jun 08
Good day...If one thing that I could be proud of in the midst of my mistakes in my past relationships is that I never use that word without meaning it I never use that word lightly or untruthfully.
• Malaysia
21 Jun 08
i do really love her... no one else can't replace her in my heart...
@subha12 (18441)
• India
20 Jun 08
i have never said that,. I never had been to any relationship. so its not the case. also i think its not fun. one should say this only when he./she means it.
@jesus777 (662)
• Bermuda
20 Jun 08
i feel that people should not really say the words i love you unless they actually means but i say actions speak louder then words do not just say that you love me but show me that you love you love comes from the heart and not just the lips so my thing is dont just say it show it because anyone can say it and not mean it but showing it is a totally different thing if it isnt from your heart then dont bother saying it at all
20 Jun 08
this three words have no means at all,you may love someone in a special situation but actually you may love someone else under other conditions right? you never lack of lover but you just ,in other words ,you can only have someone to go with you through lifetime.that is important
• Malaysia
20 Jun 08
I said i love you to my ex before when i was not sure I love her or not because I am attracted to her beauty and attractiveness. So i really meant. ' I love your beautiful face and body' when I said 'I love you'
@jag003 (127)
• Philippines
20 Jun 08
I did, one time, I was just so scared of this person I ended up just saying I love you to get rid of that person, so after saying that the pestering and bothering stuff, and I got away from that person for good... It's a crazy thing but, in reality, I only tell those 3 little words to the people who mean the world to me like my family...