Still bed wetting at 16?

well speaking from my experience, i am 16 and i still bedwet. It is not laziness, you just dont realize it when you are wetting the bed. After when you get uncomfortable with the wet cold bed, you suddenly wake up and realize you had peed in you bed. I had researched and for a 16 year old to still bedwett is about 1-2% and its very rare. But my parents talked about taking me to the doctors if i ever peed again, its not like i do it on purpose. So i can't help it. But i refuse to go everytime, it is embarasing. Once i went to sleepover at my friend, Jessica's place and while sleeping i had peed in her bed. I suddenly woke up and there was a huge wet stain on the bed, i got so scared... I looked around and i found her straightner and i strated ironing all the wet spots. Later when she woke up it was dried but the stain was visible and i was too afraid to confront her. I think she understood and didn't ask me anything. Next day when i went over her house, her sheets were changed and from that day i was too scared to meet her mom and dad. But she never spoke of the stains. I need help!! But i dont want to go to the doctor.. o yes, i only bed wett sometimes maybe once in a month or two. *not intentionally, it just happens*

Im 16 yeras old and I still wet the bed Im not a lazy person at all. I seriuoslt thought I was the only 16 year old still wetting the bed. It is extremly embarassing especially when I go to spend the night at a friends house I have to be very cautious of my liquid intake. There is no way I would lay there and pee in myself at 16 that is totally disgusting. If there is anyone who can help me please give me some advice or guidance. My mom doesnt know yet but I will have to eventually tell her. She always thinks that I am just being lazy and that is not the truth at all. To anyone struggling with this problem just know that you are not alone. I am going to research this problem on the internet for further verification there has to be a valid medical expalnantion for this dilemma.

Yeah.. I think you have good points on this. there might be an underlying causes why she is like that. Thanks for the suggestions.

the mother doesn't care about it. I don't know why. Thanks for the reply.

Yes, I think you're right at that. I will suggest that to them.

Yes, she is embarrassed to sleepin other people's house. Thanks for the reply.

You have a pint. thanks for the reply.

they did not bother to consult a doctor because she is not sick. She just bed wet that's it. Well, maybe they would try to see a doctor. Thanks for the reply.

Well, I think she has to. But they treated it like normal for her. Thanks for the reply.

i agree, im 16 an i still wet the bed i started at the age of 2 it runs in my family, i havnt grown out of it yet but there are phycological resons why i wet the bed i have been so specialists and it hasnt realy worked for my iv been on medication , tryed the alarm that goes on the bed and goes off it gets wet. I think that its complety narrow minded for people to say its because Bed wetters are lazy, i cant controll my bladder at night. and as for during the day i do get the urge but its not untill i realy need to go. there is nothing "wrong" with this girl it merley a case of either growing out of it, seeking medical advice and she has to have a bed time rutine!,.... and i bet you diddnt know that 1 in 4 teenagers wet the bed not nesserily everynight but they do so its not that uncommon! ..... i think you just need to be understanding dont make her feel like shes done somthing wrong or the bed wetting will become worse, iv been wetting the bed for 14 years and my mum has been so understanding she doesnt give me a hard time..... its simple enough if you wet the bed you buy a plastic bed protecter sheet ... make your bed like normal and if you wett its not big problem you just wash the bedding. i hope this has helped thank you for your time x

Or maybe it was ADHD instead of ADD - I'm not sure which one. It may even be for both.