is it a bad idea to marry forigners?
By HappyHope
@HappyHope (18)
China
June 21, 2008 2:23am CST
This is the debate I have to start next week.Please help me.....
And I am in the 'agree' group...
how do you think about this idea?
if you give me a hand ,i ...will ...
7 responses
@HappyHope (18)
• China
4 Jul 08
Glad to tell you that I won the debate.
My poit was the communication problem among our parents and other relatives.
However,I myself believe in LOVE.I'm not a dyed in the wool traditionalist.I will try to overcome any hardship,if god makes my prince a foreigner.
I'm not in love now ,so rationally,I think of so much.
I cnsider A Person Should Firstly Trust love ,Then comes the marriage.
@nujoomva (111)
• India
4 Jul 08
ya..its good....its really combine 2 different raises....and also its a fine truth that we all are humans....made 4 each other
@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
21 Jun 08
It is not a bad idea to marry forigners only if you are in love but if you are not in love and still likes to marry forigners then definetly that will be a bad idea, that is because the culture and living conditions differ and after marraige problems might come and there will be fights and quarrels, but if you know the person before and loved him then surely you can get adjusted with him or her even though he his a forigner.
@irishidid (8687)
• United States
21 Jun 08
It depends on the foreigner. I'd be more likely to marry a Brit or Irishman than I would someone from Mexico or the middle east. Others I'm sure have the opposite opinion.
@Bebs08 (10681)
• United States
4 Jul 08
It is not bad to marry a foreigner as long as you can get along with each other. The problem is the culture. But if you love somebody, you will have a big room of understanding and be able to adjust to each other's attitude and that marrying a foreigner is not bad at all.
@renitaperrone (547)
• United States
4 Jul 08
I don't think the nationality has anything to do with it. The question is more about the lifestyle differences. Can you live with them? Sometimes it is a huge issue. For example, some are firm in that you have to have their faith. If you don't believe in the same way, it will eventually cause problems. If they believe the woman is to "serve" the man all the time, that would probably become a big issue for us liberated Americans! :) These are the big issues that have to be decided.
