Damn i m gettin Pissed

India
June 21, 2008 1:23pm CST
wELL, i am trying to give maximum effort with my girl and the point is now she thinks i love my mom more than i love her, i m trying to give maximum preference to her in all ways and she is sitting with a upside down topic. am i giving her extra love or what? hey girls what you need from us in these situations???
5 responses
• United States
21 Jun 08
Woman do not like it when a guy's mother comes first! No woman likes a mama's boy! You need to make sure her needs come first and not go running every time your mom wants something. Your mom will understand. When you are on your own and have your own realationship your woman comes first. Your woman needs to understand you love your mom and if she needs you that you will be there for her. I was married to a man that discussed everything with his mother and not his wife. We are now divorced. Your woman needs to feel like she has a say in things to.
• India
21 Jun 08
thanks for that well, i m givin maximum time for that n my MOM's like, its u n ur girl n no time for family members, n if any thing happens she gets her in the PIC, m gettin disturbed day by day it just ends up howling and fightin at home.
• United States
13 Jul 08
I love a man who respects and loves his mother. I do not respect a man who is his mother's puppet or if he has to run to her for everything. I feel that if I am married, that man and I are now one and we are a family. I still feel like it is important to have a relationship with his mother, but there are boundaries. He doesn't need to run to tell his mother everything that we discuss at home.
@ladym33 (10979)
• United States
13 Jul 08
You need to explain to your girlfriend that you love her very much, but you also love your mother. Any significant other worth their weight in gold, will understand that their partner also loves their family. Try to explain to your girl friend that you are doing your best to keep everyone happy, she might not realize how much pressure she is putting on you.
@rrdj71 (696)
• United States
21 Jun 08
I believe that perhaps she is insecure. I would NEVER ask or expect a man to put the woman that brought him into this planet below me. She should always be 1st. Remember, women will come and go but the only WOMAN that will be there FOREVER will always be your mother. A man who love his mother as much as you do is to be GREATLY admired. If you are capable of being in touch with your feminine side in that way then I believe you would DEFINITELY make a wonderful boyfriend and/or husband.
@Wizzywig (7847)
21 Jun 08
Being in England, when I saw this title, I thought you meant you were getting drunk ;-D I think that both the women in your life just need to know you love them both but, obviously, in a different way. Both types of love are just as special.