"why do people fall inlove and end up crying?"

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The title of my discussion came from a song.Why do you to feel hurt when you are inlove?When you are inlove..you don't see any imperfections,you sometimes forget your family and friends.Love is not always a happy feeling...you'll get hurt sometime and feel neglected by the one you love.Silently you just ignore the thought of it but in reality you are hurt.My friend told me that "we women is the key to a happy and stable relationship".We are more understanding than men.But that's bulls**t..I can say it takes two to tango..it's not a one way relationship.Both of you should make the relationship work.I'm not doing this discussion bec. I have a problem with my boyfriend but I'm sharing my thoughts through my past experiences.I fell inlove,cried,laughed,got hurt,felt insulted and all.Been there,done that.I'm just wondering why our BIG BOSS up there in heaven don't give us the person that HE wants to be our lifetime partner. I have a story to share..It's my love story.. I had a boyfriend for 4years I got pregnant..we got married and i bore three adorable kids. Almost all my friends and relatives gave praises and compliments about me and my ex-hubby...that we are such a beautiful couple,that I am lucky to have an intelligent guy who can provide me all the things i need,responsible husband and dad to my kids..It was a compliment before but when I gave birth to my first child..he started fooling around..I received all the blame from my friends and relatives and they thought it was all my fault...they don't know how me and my ex-hubby when we are together.I took care of my ex-hubby like any housewives to their husband.Bec.I'm a product of a broken family,I don't the history to repeat itself.I took care of my family and tried to shield it but then again..."it takes two to tango"..I wonder why men still fool around when they have a wife who does everything for them?If show a little love and concern,it will destroy the relationship,if you give more love..it suffocates the relationship,it becomes boring.Why can't a person be contented to her/his present partner.Why does "fall of love happens?"..When we finally broke up and our marriage got annulled I asked him for the last time what was the reason why he decided to broke up with me?He just answered "I don't love you anymore!" I know that's enough reason for others but for me there's more to it..it needs further explanation and elaborration "why?" you just don't wake up one day and say " i don't love you anymore!" there's always a reason for everything.Everything happens for a reason.Way back in college we were admired by friends and people we don't know bec. we are the sweetest couple in our campus but our common friends were surprised that we made our marriage null and void.But that's the reality of relationship.It's not all FUN and happy times together...someday,somehow..unexpected things happens in a relationship.You just have to be prepared for it emotionally and mentally or should I say physically also. The happy part of my story is that my ex-hubby got married again and he has my 3kids(which is the saddest part of my life..I can't pay for my kids education..they are enrolled in an exclusive schools...for boys and girls)..few months from now he'll see his new baby boy from the latest wife.Im glad we are still friends,in civil manner should I say.I am free to see my kids and they can stay with me if they don't have school.I presently have a partner and I can say I am happy also.I just pray to god that "I wish this guy I'm with now is his gift for me or should I say "my bee" is gods gift for me.As a reward for all the hardship I experienced with my ex-hubby.I prayed to god that "I want this person be the last guy that I'll spend my whole life with until I die"...do you think it's a complicated and hard wish for god?I hope not... I'll end this discussion by saying "after the storm..the sun will shine and new day is there for you to savor it with the person who is assigned to you by god" so make each day special as if its your last day in the world.Spread the love in the world..show the world how you love your partner and so that one day if all else fails you're not going to say to yourself ..."I did not give my all to this person...how I wish I made him/her feel special and loved"..don't do things that will make you regret it one day...ciao..hope I opened your eyes of the reality of having a relationship.have a good day to all of you