help me to decide...

Just don't worry about it too much.Real love can not be blocked off by anything.Actually,lots of yong men now are in the more difficult position than you and your bf.Their loves are through the test from the families,the society,the race,the religion.etc.Compared with them ,you are luckly enough.Your cross-border romance's problem is rather general.As long as you work together,it could be resolved easily.You need not to worry about the rules in migrating because it is nothing compare with your love.Remember,the test of difficulties can bring a more lasting love.

can you handle long distance love affairs? the question is what would be the consequence if you lose your job over the consequence of him losing his job... Stability, especially financial is really important so you have to think that through...