would u rather be a widow or a divorcee?

Hi cutie143, that's a cute question. :D Hmmm... i think I'd rather be a widow because if i'm a widow, it's ok if I remarry. My conscience will be free and less likely carry past baggages. Unlike when if i'm a divorcee and i remarry, i'd feel guilty of adultery and most likely find it more difficult to forget my past and move on.