Hatred

@taqinaka (429)
Malaysia
June 22, 2008 6:47am CST
Hi guys.I want to talk about hatred.Why does this feeling exist?My gf loves to play myspace but lately there are many people who says bad things behind her back and there are some people who tried to ruin our relationship.Could you imagine that?One of the people who hates her ask her why is it that many people hate me and my gf so much.So,i tell my gf to say to that person,"Don't ask why people hate us,but you should ask yourself why we don't hate you guys after so many things that you guys did to us,".Sometimes,people could be so annoying.All my gf did was be herself and did not disturb others.Maybe there's a few things that makes people not satisfied with her but they shouldn't talk bad behind her and hate her and me so much.I really just don't understand.Now,my gf is in such a stress and sad because of these people who hates her so much and she just had a fight with her friend because a very bad person says something bad about my gf towards her friend.Sad thing is,that friend of my gf looks like she trust that bad person more then she trust my gf whom she had be friend with since they were child.Hurm.Have you guys experience such a thing?Could you tell me any other way to settle this kind of problem and make my gf feel better?
3 responses
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 08
After one settle, come another one. Just can't stop! I'm so stress b I couldn't take anymore. Feels like screaming. Thank god i have you.
• New Zealand
23 Jun 08
I hope you'd feel better soon... just them be... they don't deserve your friendship...
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
Thanks friends! Yes, I'm starting to ignore them. And it's true, they don't deserve my friendship Thanks again friends
@ieeko89 (1054)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
He's taking his bath right now
@raina21 (130)
• India
23 Jun 08
I guess the reason behind this is you two have a successful relationship which is difficult to have these days.Coz these people don't have one and have nothing to do, they are on their way to destroy your relation.In my opinion u should just ignore such fools.They will bark 4 a while and then become quiet.If u react to their stupidity,it will only increase.There are only a few people in this world who are happy seeing others happy.What say?
@raina21 (130)
• India
28 Jun 08
ya its really stupid coz people dnt have happiness in their lives so when they see it in others' lives they feel jealous.the only thing we can do is have sympathy for them coz wehave sumthing which is missing in their lives.wat say?
• New Zealand
22 Jun 08
just don't mind them... what matters is the truth... they are probably saying bad things about both of you because they envy you so much... if you let down get you down you'd only be hurt a lot and won't be able to move on... just don't step on others like they do to you... let them be... they won't win anyway... in the end they'll only do themselves harm... if your friend trusts the one who stabs the back your gf more than she trusts your gf then she cannot be called your friend... she's no different from the backstabber...
@taqinaka (429)
• Malaysia
24 Jun 08
Hello drsparkle!Your are right my friend.Maybe they just envy me and my gf so moch right?I don't really care what they say or do but i just pity my gf.She has been really nice with all the people in myspace but yet they do this to her.I am really disappointed with this people.Anyways,thanks for the post.Cheers.
• New Zealand
24 Jun 08
don't pity her.. pity them for they do not know how to be a true friend...