i wiil never trust in love again but......

Just tell her that you're just not up for a relationship right now you've been very hurt and it's hard for you to trust again I bet that she'll understand... Although I have to tell you my friend that no matter how hurt you are you can't always close your heart to love...

Dont give up on love just because your heart was broken one time does not mean it will be again. You are starting with a friendship which is usually the way that good realtionsips begin. Give it a chance.

Tell her both of you are not faithed.

i understand u have had your heart broken. i dont think u should let what happen with your ex determine if u will trust women again. u know not all woman are the same. i think if u were to give it a chance with your friend things could go better with her than u were expected. after all u have known her longer. i think if u should express your feelings of getting burn and trusting again to your friend. u should see what she has to say. u will see how it works out. if u cant work things out go your separate ways.

Just because one girl was not true does not mean that all girls will be like that with you. It has nothing to do with gender but it just so happened that way. You were with someone who just evidently cared more about herself than she did you. That is unfortunate but you have to realise that not everyone is like that just like not all guys are like that. There are guys out there too who cheat and lie but there are some decent ones out there too that do not do that to their partners. Life is strange sometimes but all in all we should just learn from our experiences and that is why we have them anyway. As for your friend yes be honest if you don't feel the same way just say that you just want to be friends and that is all you can give someone at the moment.

I think you should give the girl a chance. Maybe not immediately, give it some time. Tell her you need some time after what the last girl did and how she hurt you, but don't by any means think that all girls are like that. I have had many bad relationships with guys and I too was about to give up. But they say that there is someone out there for everyone and if you don't give up, you will find her. Keep your chin up and don't give up. She's out there!.

dont give her false hope... she already confessed her feelings to you. you should make a decision and be ready for the consequence. rather than allowing her to show and express her emotions but your insensitive for that. Your just hurting her... As ealy as possible you should talked to her in a manner that there is no loser from the both of you... you're friend for long time maybe she'll undertand you and hid her feelings again...

i can understand the situation you are going about. but also you have to tell this girl how you will. there should be no misconception about love.you may lose friendship, but there may be no way round.

Just tell her what you just told us. You have been hurt badly and right now you can't be in a romantic relationship with Anyone. Tell her that you cherish her friendship, especially now. Just tell her the truth. If she really is your friend, then you two will remain friends. But if she was just waiting for you to break up with your ex, then the friendship may end.Tell her the truth. Good Luck.I hope you do in time get another chance at love if that's what you really want. Follow Your Bliss. Take care.

Hi, You need to forget the past and come over it. You should tell ur friend that you are not ready now for a new relationship and you need time to come over the past experience. Talk to her, open up. Don't hide anything. She knows everything so she can understand and she will continue to be ur friend.. Take care and all the best for a bright future..

Easy, tell her you just broke up with your girlfriend. And you need some time for yourself. If she cannot except that,then she is not worth it. There are more fish in the sea. Take some time off for yourself. When the right one comes, you will know automatically. Don't start thinking for women!!! You don't know if she will be hurt ect. And that is her problem. The same that I don't know what a man is thinking. Though when I was younger , I thought I did.LOL! Live for yourself first. Be happy with You. Then everything will come by itself, and you will know what to do. Take care, Margajoe

i think at first you'd better not tell her you don't love her .instead i think you can say you will take sometime to consider whether you're really matches each other . this way you wouldn't hurt her and maybe you can find your ture love . sometimes the grass on the other hillsider is greener

Be a man and tell her how you feel. She'll get hurt, but at least you have told her what you did feel. You didn't lie or anything. If you're truly friends, she'll surely understand it. BTW, your ex isn't like everyone else. So try to trust someone sooner or later. Before it's too late. Goodluck to you(^^,)

Be honest with your feelings and tell her that you're not ready to have new relationship. It's hard at first,but i know she will understand you. Enjoy your relationship as friends but never let her revelations affect your friendship.

Honesty is so important. Give yourself time. Life is too short for that really don't you think? Forgive and enjoy life.

You have just been hurt and in time you will get over that hurt and be ready to love once again. You need to be honest with your friend. Tell her how hurt you are and that right now you are not ready to open your heart to her or anyone else. Don't tell her things to make her hold on to hope that you will be with her. Let her know that you want to remain friends but you want her to live her life as well and not hang on to something that isn't there. When the time is right if you two are meant to be together you will find your way to each other. I think if she is a true friend she will still want to be your friend and respect your need for time to heal. Just don't give her false hope of a relationship if you know in your heart you will never lover in that way.

Continue to be friends with her. At least she is honest to tell you how she feels. As to your trusting woman again, you will soon overcome your hurt and disdain where this is concern. You never now may this friend is your true love. Just give yourself time to heal and you will see that your friend sees in you.

i think if she loves you truly then she would understand as love is all about understanding your partner and caring for him/her more than yourself. so i think you should talk to her and discuss everything whatever's there in your heart and she'll surely understand you. good luck.