discussions so brief its hard to really answer them

@Hatley (163776)
Garden Grove, California
June 22, 2008 4:19pm CST
Hi mylotters I just answered one discussion that had only four' words in it. Do you feel like I do that we should at least try to make discussions that mean something, and give the responder something to think about and chew on a bit? Doesnt mylot want us to put a tad more effort into a discussion than three or four words that usually only need a one word answer?Asking me 'if I would pick up ten dollars if I found it on the sidewalk 'doesnt take very many braincells?
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@fluffysue (1482)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I think a lot of people just want to post as many discussions as possible, so they will go and start 20 discussions on topics like this. From what I understand, this is not the type of discussion MyLot encourages, and these people will find they are not going to make more money by posting hundreds of little discussions like this.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
fluffysue you are so right and I wish people would read the rules and save themselves much pain by making fewer discussions and making them count.
• United States
23 Jun 08
i have ran across those two and some i didnt even know what the heck they were talking about..
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
moonlitmagikchild I love your user name by the way. I have seen some that I really did not know what they were talking about either, and one of them I as much as told 'them if they wanted a response they should make the discussion' more clear.
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• United States
24 Jun 08
those vague discussions people are posting are driving me crazy
@MsTickle (25180)
• Australia
30 Jun 08
It's really hard to create a discussion. Most of the "discussions" here are just questions asking our opinion on something. It's what I mostly do. I simply don't have the brain power to start a discussion that's going to have a myriad of responses and comments discussing the topic back and forth. Most of the actual discussions are usually on controversial subjects where many will comment to a response. It's just a shame that these discussions get rather heated with some people ganging up on and putting down someone for their beliefs. Oh well, we do our best I suppose...
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
4 Jul 08
yep mstickle the controversial subjects would be fun if people did not start to beat up on someone, that really spoils the whole thing.
@twallace (2675)
• United States
23 Jun 08
There has been a few discussions I think I may have commented too that were short but it didn't bother me much. Then there are others that are long and in depth in what they have to say is good. To me whether short or long as long and I can comment I'm fine. But i do see what your talking about though. Have a good one.
@twallace (2675)
• United States
24 Jun 08
Your right about that have a nice one
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
hi twallace as long as I really understand what the poster is asking I will respond to the best of my ability. if I do not know then I pass by as I do not want to make a dumb response. lol
@newtondak (3946)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Yes, I believe that myLot expects us to put a little more effort into our discussions - they actually address that topic in their guidelines. If a discussion is that trivial, I often pass it over for something a little more thought-provoking.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
newtondak you are right,its all in the rules. and I also bypass those I do not even understand.
@zhuuraan (961)
• United States
23 Jun 08
As I understand it, discussions like that are against the guidelines. You are correct myLot wants us to write discussions with more substance. For your example, maybe they say something like "Would you pick up ten dollars if you found it on the side walk? Why or why not? What is the largest denomination of money you have ever found? I found $20 in a Wal-Mart parking lot the other day and almost picked it up. Then I thought of the poor guy who lost it and decided to leave it there." Something like that with more substance would encourage responders to give a little more detail. If you see such discussions, You should report them for violating the guidelines. That's what I did when I was on here ages ago with over 1500 posts.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
hi zhuuraan it always pays to read the darned rules. your example is right on,by just adding a few sentences you have made a more thought provoking discussion out of it. thanks.
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
for me we should try to be creative and constructive as mylotters... not because of the earnings that we'll get, but because it is that others would appreciate us and gain new ideas from us... share your thoughts... that the essence...
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
knight hi yes if we are creative and constructive we will just naturally expand our sentences so we are understood and then we can all enjoy the interplay of ideas.
@AmbiePam (92818)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I have not come across the discussion you're talking about, but I know what you mean. I finally deleted a couple people from my friend list because of it. They never answered my discussions, which was fine because I had theirs to answer. Only I couldn't think of much to say because they were so very brief. In the end I deleted them because of it. I still have some people on my list who post brief discussions, but I'm trying my best to answer theirs. I hate to delete people.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
AmbiePam I also hate to delete people as I like to have' friends. YOu are right its so hard to respond when they are really very frieb.
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@AshleyHasan (1024)
• India
23 Jun 08
I completely agree with you, all of us has to specify more details to start discussion only then others can understand and respond may be few of them dont know about this due to which they just leave 3 or 4 words, thank you for letting us know about this.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
AshleyHasan yes we need to use enough words tomake what our discussion is about clear to the others. people should read 'the rules.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I'm not sure why people post those types of discussions. They either won't get many responses or the responses make about as much sense as the discussion. I for one don't even bother going to those discussions, I would rather respond to more interesting discussions, and I'm sure I'm not the only one that feels this way. They aren't going to make any money to speak of with those types of discussions, the only thing I can figure is, it doesn't take much time or effort to post a 4 word discussion and you can post a lot of them, but that still doesn't do much for your earnings.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
palonghorn its sad that they do not realize they will make more money doing fewer discussions and elaborating on those discussions to make them quality discussions that users can 'respond to.
• India
23 Jun 08
Haha.. i don't respond to discussions that look like tags. If at all the author of the topic, want us to discuss something thy must give more insight on the subject.. which they would want to discuss.. Also i have a fear that simple one liners are not allowed in here in mylot as it is against mylot rules. So i prefer to stay away from those kind of discussions. Take care friend.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
saivenkaat hi I havelearned also to stay away from one liners as they usually get deleted.
• United States
23 Jun 08
Sometimes the title is longer than the discussion! I guess the person figures that the title has said it all and there is no need to repeat! I say, Repeat! Repeat! For my sake, repeat at least one time. That way I will know what is being said. It's hard to type when one is tired. Maybe that is the issue.
@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
beautyqueen I do agree repeat so we all know what you 'want and then we can respond like crazy. lol.
@ketybhagat (4123)
• India
23 Jun 08
Basically, discussions are done so that we can have an exchange of ideas and learn from them if need be. Unfortunately, I have seen a four line disucussion, "Which soap do you use " being given the designation of todays top discussions by mylot. Sometimes I read such beautiful discussions which by right should be on the top discussions of the day, but I have still to understand how mylot admin works. You are absolutely right.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
ketybhagat I also do not always understand how mylot admin' works either as some really great discussions are neveron the top discussions.
@masterdw (90)
• China
23 Jun 08
Just a few words seems to be uninterested in the topic ,and then I wonder why he started such an discussion ,just for money?and I even wonder can he earn money from it?I think here is a place to give out our opinoin,as well as earn some extra money,All we need to do is think about a topic for a while,and express all the opinoin.the person with just several words in his discussion or response is disgusting ,I think.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
masterdw you are right this is the place to discuss things 'so we need to be clear on what it is we want to discuss and use enough sentences to make it clear.
@icyorchid (2564)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Hi Hatley, Yes mylot wants discussions, not sentences. lol The best effort is if they have 5 or more sentences that is a discussion in the process, 1 line sentences is actually a risk of being deleted from mylot. It is in the terms that they do not want that. I try to tell newbies who ask how to go about making discussions to use the 5 sentences or more rule in their discussions and replies. Sometimes it is hard to do with replies, but if you think on it a bit, you can do it. ~Icy~
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
hi icy I have also responded to newbies on how to do' discussions and responses to earn the most and hoped I helped a bit.
@subha12 (18441)
• India
23 Jun 08
it is really there. i have seen that many people hard so much brief discussions. few days back i was pointing that a fairly highly rated mylotter started very few words discussions.It makes me angry.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
hi subha It is indeed irritating when the poster does not take the time to elaborate on his topic so you can understand what he wants.
• United States
23 Jun 08
Hatley I agree with you. I tend to stay away from those myself. My discussions are not always, deep thoughtful ones, but I do try for the most part. I have to be inspired by something to give it a write up. However I have found that if you are asking folks in mylot to think to much they will skip over you. Which is okay really because when I do write out one that requires thinking I am looking for intelligent responses.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
hi Angel I have come to look at some of my discussions that required some thought and did not get a whole lot of responses as getting really thoughtful ones from those who did respond.
@roniroxas (10560)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
yes it is really hard to answer discussion with so brief explanation. there are also long discussions that are answerable by yes or no and that is also not that easy to respond to. sometimes specially when those members are new i explain to them that they need to have wore words included with every post and i also respond the discussion.
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
roniroxas yes we need to have some explanations for us to answer correctly, and I have also seen long discussions that I am hard put to do more than give a yes or no. I also have tried to help newbies by explaining the rules.
@nupats (3564)
• India
23 Jun 08
hi dear i always answer the discussions i feel like answering and also come across some discussions tht do not make much of a sense to me so i just avoid thm...since this is an open forum ppl may post wt they like we cdan always choose wt to answer...have a nice day
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
nupats I too answer the ones that interest me and avoid those that I cannot for the life of me understand.
@fwangaa (3057)
• China
23 Jun 08
Yes,sometimes i only answered some words.If i find there is money on the road ,i think i don't pick it up .
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@Hatley (163776)
• Garden Grove, California
23 Jun 08
fwangaa Sometimes I respond only to those that really interest me and bypass those that I really do not understand.