Girls Cry Because...
By samel4792
@samel4792 (49)
Malaysia
June 22, 2008 4:38pm CST
Girls Cry Because...
1. they're sad...
2. they're scared..
3. they're nervous..
4. they're frustrated..
5. they're missing someone..
6. they're alone..
7. they're PMSing..
8. they're pregnant..
9. their heart is broken..
10. they're in love..
11. their souls have been torn..
12. THEY MET A BOY THEY CAN"T HAVE...
13. they fell in love with a boy..
14. they hurt so bad inside
15. they're mad
16. something bad happend..
17. JUST BECAUSE THEY FEEL LIKE CRYING..
BOYS:
If any girl you know is crying and you see them, don't just stand there and say you're sorry..hold them and tell them everything will be okay, even if you have no idea what is wrong with them...
Girls just want to be held and know that someone cares about them...
Just to share something....
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22 responses
@zhuuraan (961)
• United States
23 Jun 08
That's an interesting theory, but not entirely accurate. Sometimes we women just want to be left alone, sometimes you are right and we just want to be held. Sometimes it's a combination of both. But I can add a couple more to those.
They're hurt.
They're heartbroken.
Something is wrong and they feel helpless to do anything about it.
They feel betrayed, usually by someone they were close to.
These are just a few I have personally experienced. Hope that adds to your little list. Someone should make one about why boys cry, and why they always like to hide it. I like my fiance that much more because when he wants or needs to cry, he doesn't hide it like a lot of guys
@samel4792 (49)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 08
i've wrote about why guys cry too...hope you can read it and maybe you can add up some more..
anyway..thank for the comment..
@ifglan (1152)
• China
23 Jun 08
I seldom cry in public.When i lose something or failed,i will not cry,only cry when i meet the true feeling,the feeling from my lover or my parents.Cry,because i fell in love with someone .otherwise, not better than being sad.
@yoyo53465095 (16)
• China
24 Jun 08
I only cry when I'm in the situation 5,9 and 14. I think maybe I'm very tough! Hehe...
@abigailcherry (92)
• United States
22 Jun 08
I used to have a boyfriend that would take a nap if I started crying. He would say something like "when you're done being stupid and emotional, wake me up." Of course, that behavior only hurt my feelings and caused me to cry more. What a jerk! Thank you for posting this, because it's so true. When a woman cries it's for a reason. Usually there is a deeper issue there than her just being silly or emotional. If a guy doesn't care that you are hurting, then he doesn't really care about you, period.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Hey ,
I have been told that as well and I cry way too much.What ever happened to just listening to someone and telling them it will be okay and give them a nice little hug. For me boys seemed to be much dumber in High school .The real men do care
@joannaliu (2)
• China
25 Jun 08
I think that girls are clined to cry, because they are more emotional, they wil use tears as their tools. After crying, they will feel better.
@schizoaffectivegurl (430)
• Canada
23 Jun 08
im a cry baby. i easily cry.sometimes without any reason at all.
@neha211985 (779)
• India
23 Jun 08
girls cry becoz no one understands them and they have dare to express there feelings which boys dont have
@Bluepatch (2476)
• Trinidad And Tobago
23 Jun 08
Girls cry because they are sensitive. All the reasons you gave are reasons of sensitivity.
Boys cry for exactly the same reason although the CAUSES might be different.
Crying is natural and there's nothing wrong with it.
Try to find out how many Presidents have cried and when.
Or how many world leaders have stood up and said that they cried.
We are human and all humans cry.
Thats what tears are for.
All the best, much respect.
@metschica25 (5399)
• United States
23 Jun 08
That is a nice little list and thank you for sharing . I am a crier and always have been .I truly do wear my heart on my sleeve and wouldnt have it any other way .Sometimes, a good cry is much needed .Crying helps and can wash away all the pain and it is natural to do . Crying shows you are alive and you have a heart.
I have known people who have told me to grow thicker skin and you are a cry baby .No you are just a jerk !!
@mojess (14)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I belive that crying waters your soul. Crying is not a bad thing and besides that it feels good. I've been so emotional that I have cried over some thing as stupid as not having what I want to eat. I could have had any food but because it wasen't what I wanted at that time I cried. And to think there are people starving in the world. My tears had the best of me that day.
@startstop123 (435)
• India
23 Jun 08
Girls cry because...
1. they're sad
2. they're scared
3. they're nervous
4. they're frustrated
5. they're missing someone
6. they're alone
7. they're PMSing
8. they're pregnant
9. their heart is broken
10. they're in love
11. their souls have been torn
12. they met a boy they can't have
12. they fell in love with a boy
14. they hurt so bad inside
15. they're mad
16. something bad happened
17. just because they feel line crying.....
Good Info you got here. I guess you made a Research on this issue. I think you have seen many girls crying for many issues. Good work buddy. Have a nice day !
@Ravenladyj (22902)
• United States
23 Jun 08
Well when I disagree completely....let me break it down for you
Girls Cry Because...
1. they're sad...
[b]2. they're scared..
3. they're nervous..
4. they're frustrated..
5. they're missing someone..
6. they're alone..
7. they're PMSing..
8. they're pregnant..
9. their heart is broken..
10. they're in love..
11. their souls have been torn..
12. THEY MET A BOY THEY CAN"T HAVE...
13. they fell in love with a boy..
14. they hurt so bad inside
15. they're [/b]mad
16. something bad happend..
17. JUST BECAUSE THEY FEEL LIKE CRYING
all the ones in bold...as it applies to me..are WRONG...I only cry when I'm sad or something bad has happened and even then its RARE!...
BOYS: If any girl you know is crying and you see them, don't just stand there and say you're sorry..hold them and tell them everything will be okay, even if you have no idea what is wrong with them... Girls just want to be held and know that someone cares about them
LOL if a guy tried to do that with me he'd get knocked out During the rare times I'm upset to the point of crying, best bet is to just leave me the hell alone IF for some rare reason I need to be babied, I'll let ya know..but dont hold your breath LOL
@jensgeukens (373)
• Belgium
23 Jun 08
Not all the girls are so sensitive, you have to keep that in mind. I understand when a girl is crying you have to comfort her, and I also will. But there are some girls who cry for everything, and with everything I mean really everything: from the most stupid issues and dollops to the biggest problems. And I'm sorry to say but I really hate it when girls are crying every time for the smallest issue. Like there aren't enough other important problems in the world. Nevertheless, I'll always do my best to comfort a girl when she's feeling sad. I hope I didn't upset any girls with my opinion :)
Greetz
@chej18 (915)
• United States
22 Jun 08
Thats a good one!I am a cry baby too.But when i started to cried my partner give comfort and he said I dont wanna see you crying.But if i cried at night and its really late he sleep on it.Hahahaha...And i dont stop until he didnt comfort me haha..
@ReeRee0901 (128)
• China
23 Jun 08
agree, girls usually have sensitive hearts.I cry when i thought of my decesed father and grangmother. if just be with boyfriend, he will give me a strong hug and makes me feel better.
sometimes, boy/man also feel they are going to cry, they just to not let tears come out of eyes, so, they also need hug:D
@masterdw (90)
• China
23 Jun 08
You are right,though you didn't list all the reason that a girl cry,but you give such a good suggestion on dealing with such a situation.Thank you very much.you know ,my girl crys just sometimes because she just wants to make a joke with me 'but I aways pay a litter attention to her,and then she feels sad,and cries.each time I need to do is just embrace her.