Don't know what to believe
By shasha808
@shasha808 (3)
June 22, 2008 8:08pm CST
I have a bf, who I've been living with almost 2 yrs now. We've been together for 3 yrs. He loves the comp. and he loves women.. He is always on the comp. playing this game called conquer. He gets to chat with anyone on this game. I know that he chats with males and females but sometimes I find out that he gives the females his phone no. and if they call when I'm home, he can look straight at me and tell me that its one of his other friends. Lately I've been getting mad at him almost everyday and dont talk with him the whole day. My fuse is getting really short. Don't get me wrong you may call me STUPID but I DO LOVE HIM.I confronted him twice on this and he admitted that he lied. What am I suppose to think when I ask him if he's sleeping with another girl and he tells me NO. How am I suppose to believe him when he already lied to me twice??? What am I to do?? I really do try and trust him but something always kicks me back.. CONFUSED!!! HELP IS MORE LIKE IT !!!
shasha808
honolulu, HI
3 responses
@jag003 (127)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
it's all a matter of trust and if you can't trust him and he can't even tell you the truth that's a really big deal... You love him right, just ask him and tell him that you're gonna accept his answers as long as they're true... And even if they end up hurting you that would be a lot better than staying on for a long time coz it's gonna be a lot more painful
@mulau2u (1459)
• Malaysia
23 Jun 08
sorry to ask you this question, did your boyfriend love you so much, did he has proven this to you. While we were still boyfriend or girlfriend our activity are focus to that person, in your case you two has live together almost then 2 years and you two did everything you like at that house. The problem is why you don't just get marriage why need to take a long time for that since you two living together. Your boyfriend seem don't care of you cause you two a together living at that house, if he want to make love with you he can get in any time that way he just look don't care for you. Try move to other house and look what will he say to you. i will bet that he will begging at you for not to leave him alone, but if he don't care about that, that mean what you have thinking about his before a rights.
Anyway this only my point of view, it depend on you to decide it. Have a nice day and happy posting.
@agihcam (1914)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
You are facing a huge problem in the future if you get married with him I believe.But the decision will be left unto you.But please consider his attitude in the future,if it did not change then that would be the big problem.Don't know how old are you and your bf though,maybe this is his fun things in life,having games with others,please pray that he will not take it seriously.
