What man will you marry with?

@ifglan (1152)
China
June 23, 2008 3:20am CST
Hello,friends,i am a new-comer,today i want to turn to you ,cause i run into trouble .What man will you marry with?A man with more money,a man loves you,a man just so so ...i just do not know what is the most important thing in marriage.Will you choose a boy who has nothing but he loves you deeply,and work hard together with him to make life better,or just choose a boy with almost everything but no special feeling.I know most of you could say:It depends on yourself ,everyone's pursue is different.But still,maybe you can give me more valuable sights,thank you.
6 responses
alokn99
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
25 Jun 08
Why do you need to marry ? I think if you are able to answer this question to yourself first you will find your answer. No doubt love is the most important part of marriage ,but remember, people also fall out of love easily. One of the causes of this is money. On the other hand if the person you decide to marry has everything but has no feelings for you may leave you absolutely lonely. First identify the person you are likely to love or have feelings for. This will make your decision easier.
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ifglan
@ifglan (1152)
• China
26 Jun 08
Your analysis sounds reasonable,i will take it,the person is the most important,when i have decided the one,the second step will be money ,and other things. Thank you for your reply,my friend.
kelseyli
@kelseyli (2)
•
25 Jun 08
I don't thing i can accept to marriage without love and feel.so i will choose a man i love. and work hard to get money.the feeling is most important i thing.this is my private opinion.
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ifglan
@ifglan (1152)
• China
26 Jun 08
I agree with you ,my friend,thank you for your reply.
n30wing
@n30wing (4767)
• Philippines
10 Jul 08
Money can't buy happiness. Money is the root of evil. What will make you happy? Money if you work so hard you will have it, love is not that easy to find and feeling it. It's better to feel love then not feeling it. Follow your heart even you commit a mistake you had feel love there is no regrets. Have a nice day!
snoopy88
@snoopy88 (452)
• Australia
23 Jun 08
Someone that makes you feel happy and comfortable. Happiness is priceless. Hopefully your feelings will give you the answer that leads you to having a meaningful life.
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ifglan
@ifglan (1152)
• China
23 Jun 08
Thank you,now i know the man can not be weighed with money or status,it is really the feeling,if i feel happy with him,he should be the Mr.Right.
joannaliu
@joannaliu (2)
• China
25 Jun 08
I think this is a very difficult question to many girls. In my opinon, the most important thing is love, he should love me, and then we can earn money as much as we can. I will not maryy a boy who doesn't love me.
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ifglan
@ifglan (1152)
• China
25 Jun 08
We share the same view,maybe most girls will choose love first,based on love,then we will consider the money,the job,and others.But sometimes marriage is like a gambling,and the ante will be our life.
hardworkinggurl
@hardworkinggurl (37063)
• United States
12 Oct 10
Interesting to have stumbled across this discussion from 3 years ago. Nothing has changed and people are still marrying for the wrong reason. Good intentions but some for the wrong reasons. It is quite a commitment one, one should not take lightly.