do you like to agree with your pair?

@muralirv (572)
India
June 23, 2008 7:09am CST
Hi!Do you like to accept the words of your pair or you like to be on your own and take decisions yourself. if your pair says something do you accept with them and and adjust or you simply argue and make that a big fight.
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@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
It depends on the situation. We often talk and patch up things, we finalized it when we think we will both benefit to it. Sometimes, I agree with him when I think he have a point of view and same way he also agree with me when he thinks my decision is right. It's hard to say "Yes" or just "agree" when your partner told you to do this and that. Relationship should be give and take, you have to hear both sides and you must decide fairly to avoid arguments.
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@muralirv (572)
• India
24 Jun 08
Very correct!Avoid unnecessary arguments.
• Belgium
23 Jun 08
My answer is very simple and logic I think: I accept when I think she's right.. I'll discuss and give my opinion whenever I think she's wrong or there is a better answer to the issue. I hope this is the case with the most couples :-) Take care.
@muralirv (572)
• India
24 Jun 08
very good.This should be followed by all the couples but many doesn't.
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
In my case, we both believe that marriage is a partnership and therefore all decisions must be discussed upon. We weigh all the consequences that may arise, positive and negative, before we decide on something and in case it's a wrong decision then we wont blame each other. Sometimes, when it's a major decision and might affect us or which involved financial matter then we wont decide immediately. We have to discuss it over and over again, put our opinions in writing and even consult the opinion of our kids before we come up on the actual decision.
@muralirv (572)
• India
24 Jun 08
fabulous!Discussing with kids is extremely superb
@khithi17 (762)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
yes. i do accept his decisions, since he's a more mature thinker than me. but if his decisions doesn't make any sence or if i can't understand why should we then i ask him why should we...lol. then he explains it to me and we always understands each other. i know he won't do anything to hurt me. in short i trust him so much and that is very important in a relationship...
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@muralirv (572)
• India
24 Jun 08
Great!May your relationship ever last with flying colors.All the best
@jofeli (502)
• Indonesia
23 Jun 08
I think mostly my husband and I have different opinions about most things. Probably because both of us are extremely different in personalities and hobbies. So that it may affect us on how we view things. But luckily, being so totally different has no effect on our relationship. In fact, it enrich us to understand more about each other. When it comes to different opinions, each of us usually thinks about it before coming to a decision. It can't judged who's right and wrong, because no one is trying to be a victor/winner here. All we do is analyzing which one will be the best for the sake of both, not each. Thx.
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@muralirv (572)
• India
24 Jun 08
Here we not going to give award for this but opinions must be shared when it id different.am i right?