Please Help me out of Love problem
By senjacob
@senjacob (124)
June 23, 2008 7:35am CST
My close friend is one who loves one girl for the past two years sicerely.But they never see each other frequently,only two times in two years.Even they have not seen frequently,but they are very close to eaach other and talked in mobile phone for long hours continuously three or four hours.
But suddenly one unexpected problem exists between them.
My friend doubts his girl friend,because she is the reason for that.
She is looking beautiful so she got many calls from his boy friends as they are proposing their love to her.
but she replied that i already fixed.
But she told her lover (My friend) that wat ahe talked to her boy friends regarding proposes.
The problem is the girl always talked about her boy friend's proposes to my friend.
At last,he doubts about her and asked many questions regarding that.
Now i heard that my friend got a very big confusion in his mind and it seems their love going to break..
Even she is good,but my friend cannot beleive her because of her past talkings.
please can anyone give tips to join their love
4 responses
@eliren (91)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
im in a long distance relationship.... we already talked about this kind of situation,, only TRUST binds us.. we dont let any doubt or sayings will break us apart...
we believe in the saying that
LOVE CANNOT LIVE WER THERE IS NO TRUST
if u are taken so be it,,,
if u want to be single, so be it
but dont ever fool anybody
u can tell to ur someone that u have somebody at least u dont lie.
truth hurts but it will set u free.
if ur friend doubts his gf maybe there is something about him or his relationship with her.
u should also remember the saying that,
not everything u do is wat everybody is doing,,,
wat everything u think is wat everybody is thinking...
my point is,,, u can love but u cannot stop other ppol from loving other ppol especially if this will make them happy ^_^
@nikkidv22 (69)
• South Africa
23 Jun 08
Trust is very important in any relationship if it wants to last. I think they should meet face to face, not on the phone, and discuss their future with each other with no interference from other guys.
@alchemyoflife (7)
• India
23 Jun 08
Nice to hear ur concern abt ur friend ,
Well friend I can only say that TRUST always plays a important role in our life, once we lose its dificult to regain it. U can ask ur friend not to loose trust on her if at all he really loves ( also plz ask him the defination of his love, if his love is sooo weak that even the rumours n alike can affect his love than am sorry friend his love is something different, it has become his buisness where he always believes in Give n Take Policy )
Inspite of not having trust on her n continue his Pseudo love, this will affect in his future, I meant in his marriage, hence ask him not to do so , also more imortant aski ur friend to again have a discussion with hid GF asthere is everypossibility that she may try to irritate him )
At the end, I still say, Trust from both side is important n if they have it no matter wt , nothing can affect their relationship.
All d best friend ... hope this will help u n ur friend
@chrislee2701 (27)
• China
23 Jun 08
The distance is really a problem,but if they really want in love,it is very important to believe in,let your friend have a chat with his girlfriend well when free
