Those who truly love always loses in the end...
By drsparkle314
@drsparkle314 (529)
New Zealand
June 23, 2008 8:57am CST
I heard this line from a certain tv show... and it made me think back a lot... specially with my current situation... I really love my ex... with all my mind.. heart and soul... I sacrificed everything I can for her... but still she left me for the negative side of me that she wasn't able to accept... though I accepted all of her...
So what do you think about this line? Do you believe it? Share your views and stories....
3 responses
@lazaki222 (81)
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24 Jun 08
It's just a line from a tv show but it is very meaningful.
Well I have the same situation like yours. But I think we should move on when things are not meant to be. That's life we should continue even one of our most precious loved ones just hurt us and can't accept at our worst then that means he/she doesn't deserve us at our best.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
24 Jun 08
Hmm.. thanks... your words made me realize something... =)
@mialei23 (2385)
• Philippines
23 Jun 08
Case to case basis. But I guess it's true. I experienced that before I really loved my ex-boyfriend also but it turned into nothing. I knew that I more than love him the way he did. It took 2 years before I accept the fact that we could no longer be together and in fact he got married that year. Now, I just realized I have to give what I can right now, not too much love but fair share. I learned a lot from the past. Now I should be brave enough to handle things.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
24 Jun 08
Yeah we should always learn from the past... I believe that... but sometimes I still look back a lot... maybe because everything is still too fresh...
@spalladino (17891)
• United States
23 Jun 08
I never take anything on television seriously and this is one example of why I don't. For this statement to be true that would mean that there are a lot of awful people in the world, unable to love someone back who loves them. I don't believe that this is true. In your case, even though you say that you loved your ex with all of your mind, heart and soul, you still possessed a negative side that she could not deal with. I don't know exactly what this negative side was but I do know that we have the power to overcome our negative sides, the things about us that make us less attractive to others, that upset and/or hurt others. Don't consider for a minute that your true love for someone will always end up badly. Look at this negative side and see what you can do to correct it. Then try again.
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
24 Jun 08
I did look at my negative and have been constantly trying to correct it... though I have failed a lot of times I never stop trying and working hard to overcome it...