Ever been offended?

I used to get offended easily. I was getting my feelings hurt all of the time, then retaliating. Whether it was someone making fun of my weight, or the way that I dress, I would get upset. Now, I look back on that and laugh, and I laugh at people now who try to insult me. Now, when people say something to me, I either agree with them, or ask them to explain their reasoning. The first usually shuts them up because it defeats their purpose, and the second usually yields no results because they have no reason.