always the best friend, never the girl friend

Well, its normal to compare new guys you meet to other guys that you already know. I think that you have to relize that not everybodys the same and everyone has their good points and bad points. There is nothing wrong with being picky about the guys that you date, in fact I would be more surprised if your not. I'm picky too, thats probably why I'm still single. Bottom line, you are normal! Hugs, Tianna

i think that if you are comparing a potential boy friend to your friends that you may have some deeper feelings for your friend. maybe you should explore your feelings for your friend and see if they are actually worth comparing other people to.

Yes, i agree, you should look deep inside and check if you are not secretly in love with your best friend and don't want to admit it. You should know, once you will get a (real, steady) boyfriend he should also be your best friend (in my opinion), and the current best friend will be a good friend because with your boyfriend you will share more secrets than with your actual best friend (or so it should).

In my idea i think you like your male friend or you love him.But you cant show affections to him becouse your afraid to lost him w/ your life.So you keep comparing somebody else or you wish that some other guy to be just like him.That's not normal you have to see your point of view.Find out how you can get out w/ that situation its either tell him about it, or get some space so you will find out what you have to do.When we're young we idolized our father atleast i idolized my father becouse i love my father and i want my man to be like him.So that means you feel something so deeply w/ your male friend.But who know mybe you just idolizing him just like i do w/ my father.Becouse you know your friends a lot.And that is normal!Have a nice day! Greetings from Che!