Good relationship with your sister-in-law???
By kissie34
@kissie34 (2294)
Philippines
June 24, 2008 1:30am CST
Do you have a good relationship with your sister-in-law?? Does she treated you good?? I have a sister-in-law which is the future wife of my older brother. When the first time that I had met her I though she is kind but then when she already stayed in our house for couple of days, I had observed her attitudes. She is really different. She always quarrel my brother every time my brother goes home very late and when my brother won't give money. She is very insecure. When someone texted my brother especially if it is a girl, she will really text back and told that girl to stop texting my brother. She is very jealous to any girls out there.
Until, how many months had past the more I can see her attitudes and behavior. She don't treat as good if my brother is not around. It seems she owns our house. I just really hate her but I cannot tell her and I cannot quarrel her because of my brother and my niece. Until, I cannot stop my emotions and my anger got burst and I had told her the things I shouldn't said. I know that it is not good but I just can't help it. I just really hate her. She is so plastic.
Do you have a sister-in-law like this? Can you share something about how's your relationship to each other?
5 responses
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
14 Jul 08
my sister-in-law is living with us. i like her and i finde her as a good person. she takes care of my brother and their child. i am contented and happy with the choice of my brother. she are not that close as friends or anything but i can talk to her and all. sh eis nice to me as me to her. as she always say, she can take it if a person is not nice to her but she will can never take it if a person will be bad to her son. i admire her for fighting for my brother.
@gemini_rose (16264)
•
26 Jun 08
When I actually get to see my sister in law we get on so well, but she is just not close to me. I try often to build up the relationship so that we are closer but she has her own friends and she is always so busy that it just never happens.
I have been out with her twice I think in the last two years for a night out and both times we had so much fun, I wish it could happen more often!
@mykmari_08 (2464)
• Philippines
26 Jun 08
I've been married to my husband for more than five years now and we have a loving daughter who is turning three this year.
Regarding my in-laws, I'm quite okay with them including my sisters-in-law. My husband has four male siblings and two female siblings; so I've got two sisters-in-law by my husband.
If my memory serves me right, I never had any quarrels with them. In fact, my eldest sister-in-law who's eighteen years of age has even stopped schooling for one year upon my husband's request just to act as a nanny to our daughter. In return, we gave her an amount as allowance for her schooling last year, aside from numerous gifts we have given her on several occasions.
I've got to admit that sometimes, I feel closer to them rather than my own female siblings. I'm the eldest of four siblings but I'm still the only one married among us. Next to me is my younger brother but until this day, he doesn't have any girlfriend yet. I don't even know if he's planning to be married sometime in the future.
@kaezy_kulet (2465)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
my brother is not yet married to her girlfriend but we have a very nice relationship with her and she is already accepted as a part of our family..she is very nice and thoughtful i like her for my brother very much and even though they will not end up with each other i will like to have her still as a friend.
@lovely_parrot (39)
• China
24 Jun 08
we are always in some troubles with others not only sitster-in-law.but it's a bigger trouble,because she is one of u family.i have no experence about it.but i want to say
we should study how to respect and understand others.the point is tolerance.we needn't
punish ourselves as other's fault.
keep happy,good luck to u.
