how can i handle my slight possessive boyfriend?
By michellie
@michellie (15)
Philippines
June 24, 2008 3:20am CST
a boyfriend who doesnt want me to get attached to my childhood male friends, as long as males. he doesnt want me to get attached with guys. at first, its very difficult for me and we argued a lot about my guy friends. i dont really know whats his point, and i think time will come ill get paranoid.
on the other side, i think its sweet . thinking that he loves me alot that he cant bare seeing any other guys with me.
i dont really know. help.
1 response
@alokn99 (5717)
• India
24 Jun 08
Possessiveness can get to ruin a relationship. It also gets generated by the feeling of insecurity about the relationship one of the partners may have.
You could on a frequent basis remind your b/f of how much you care for him and how much he means to you. Avoid talking too much about your other male friends to him. Introduce him to some of them , especially the ones you are sure will not give him the sense of competion.
He also may have some female friends. Ask him about them in a nice manner and get to meet them in his presence.
@mansaa (42)
•
25 Jun 08
ya nice idea man. you just told what we are doing. Actaully i am conservative minded and we did introduced each others fren.. as we know each other we are having gud relation now.
@michellie (15)
• Philippines
27 Jun 08
thanks.:)
slowly, im adjusting to his personality and the way he handles our relationship.
also, i know he's adusting too the way i live my life as a city girl.
i think the factor that really influence him for being conservative is that he grew up in a province while i grew up in a city. maybe, thats the big difference, the way we socialize people especially opposite gender.
thankyou.:)
