My daughter's expression made her father and sister cry.

@TriciaW (2441)
United States
June 24, 2008 6:21am CST
As many know I was told about a ball team for children with special needs so I arranged to have my daughter play. I was pretty sure it would be something she would enjoy even though I some people thought I was wrong. Even right up to the time we were leaving for the game her father told me he didn't think this was a good idea. I told him that it was too late now and if she didn't like it she didn't have to do it again. I had explained to my daughter that there would be children with all different kinds of abilities playing so she knew what was going to happen. Well we got there and everyone was so nice. Instead of having her hit off the tee the coach pitched to her. She smaked that ball so hard everytime and as she hit the base she was beaming from ear to ear. After the first hit I looked at her father and then her sister and they were both crying. They both told me they had never seen her so proud of herself and having so much fun. Their tears actually lasted most of the game as did the smile on my daughter's face. I know sometimes they forget how hard she works for everything she does and this was not work it was fun for her. She was able to play first base and short stop so that in itself made her feel great. There was no pressure on her and she was just actually able to have fun playing ball. They all also loved her pink bat so she was proud she could share that with the others as well. Next I need to look into the horse back riding group they have she will really love that. I am so happy that I went with my gut on this one and didn't cave into the comments from others. I know her father and my other daughter are glad she can have this experience too. There is nothing greater then seeing the joy on your child's face.
5 responses
• United States
24 Jun 08
I have a niece who has special needs whom I dearly love. The first time I saw her take a step with her braces and walker there was such a look of accomplishment on her face. I'm tearing up just thinking about. She is such a wonderful girl and I am so proud of her! I hope your daughter can keep playing because childhood is all too short.
@TriciaW (2441)
• United States
24 Jun 08
Well you brought tears to my eyes too. I remember what it was like to see those things. It is funny how those things can teach us to be greatful for what we do so easily everyday when it takes so much for a child with special needs.
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
I think you made the right decision. As a parent, you're willing to do everything for your child to make her happy. We want to see our children happy with what they're doing and enjoying! I know that you're very proud of your daughter and anyone will be proud also.
@Thoroughrob (11742)
• United States
24 Jun 08
I am so happy for her!! I am glad she had such a great time. It is sad that people have to ruin it with their comments. The team she is on now, are going to be just the opposite. They will be so encouraging and accepting. My son, with CP, loves to be around others in wheelchairs and that have other disabilities. You can just see that he is more comfortable. You will find this team so much more rewarding for her and I am sure she will make some great friends, that will be lifetime friends. I hope your husband has seen how much it makes her happy, an is ok with it. It sounds like he has. Congrats on a good decision!!
@subha12 (18441)
• India
24 Jun 08
I think you took a really nice decision. now youir other daughter and the fatjer should feel proud of her. when she is happy all should be happy as well.
@roanne05 (1290)
• Oman
24 Jun 08
wow,,a very nice choice for your child! she did enjoy it for sure...i am also sure your whole family are proud of her.