What if ur best freind is involve with ur boy freind?

wow! that hurts, i think i will need a long long time to recover from that incident. I will wish them well, and continue my journey to find the one good man!

this is a big big problem, of course my initial reaction will be I'll feel betrayed, angry, revengeful of what they've done to me. just the thought of my guy having involvement to other girls that I don't even know of is enough to drive me crazy, how much more with my best friend!! The very thing I'll do before dropping them both is to confront them and tell them how bad they made me feel.

Even understanding that this is a hypothetical question, I still find it hard to contemplate this situation in my life. This is both because my husband and best friend are very unlikely to ever be attracted to each other, and because I know that even if they were, they would never do this to me. It would be such a betrayal if it were to happen, killing two of the most important relationships in my life in one fell swoop. I can't imagine how I would ever rebuild the trust. I think I would have to cut out all contact with both of them. I hope and pray that nothing so sad is ever a reality for me, or anyone else really. I wouldn't wish it on a soul.

that's going to be the end of our relationships. GOODBYE!!!

I would say good bye to both of them because you would never be able to trust them again. That would be very difficult and I think I would be hurt most that my best friend could do that to me. Guys do that type of thing all the time, but your best friend should never cross that line.