old style courtship or cyber courtship which do you prefer?
@blackmantra_x (2732)
Philippines
June 24, 2008 1:09pm CST
With th advent of internet, text messaging and 3g, communication becomes fast-paced in the business world that is and it is a good thing but I can't say the same with romance, it seemed to loose it's truthfulness and sincerity, well that's just me but what do you think? old style courtship or cyber courtship which do you prefer?
4 responses
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
25 Jun 08
I'm the traditional type of guy... I prefer to pursue the girl I love through my efforts and sacrifices formally... If it's possible I prefer courting her with the permission of her parents and I like being close to her family... With my most recent ex I could say I did a really traditional type of courting to win her heart... though things were a lot more complicated that you can possibly imagine and though I never formally asked the permission of her parents... I could say I'm really close to them specially with all of her siblings...
@blackmantra_x (2732)
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
good day..A guy like me, a hopeless romantic with love letters and poems
@drsparkle314 (529)
• New Zealand
25 Jun 08
hehehe.. I do that too... I even write a song, pick up my guitar, place a tune on it and play it for her...
@Insung001 (740)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
I tend to prefer cyber courtship because it more comfortable LOL! You don't have to dress up and drive long distance. But of course the old style shows more sincerity.
@gsgonzalez2007 (1004)
• Philippines
24 Jun 08
you are true enough indeed. Cyber courtship loose the real feeling of romance and sincerity. However, Cyber courtship can be developed and maybe transformed to the old style of courtship if the couple would like to establish a long lasting relationship.
@selece (2357)
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
What I have to say is... Old style, definitely. I value that principle and concept ever since I learned what love is. LoL. Internet, text, 3g, etc = Lifeless, emotionless... You won't get to know a person fully through these. You can't send your love through email or text right? Or a hug or kiss, or anything... There is no intimacy or romance in cyber courtship.
