Single? But WHY?

well um for some reason since they got really hurt from the past experience people tend to be more careful and picky in choosing their partners. However, since their standards are so high already to almost perfect human being.. they end up finding no one. Also what holds them back from being in a relationship is trauma... it takes time to heal especially psychologically.... But if the person allow someone to get in her heart just a little but must also be careful not to give all.. It's like weighting things over if this person deserves it or not. Don't give 100% unless you are sure about that person... leave some love for yourself too. =)

This is a personal matter but if you really want to know then drop me a pm with your email and I will tell you. Bless you. Happy myollting.

I think I am just too independent for my own good, I like to be incontrol of my own life and decisions, I see a lot of my friends who are attached, married or just in partnerships, the female seems to lose her identity and just goes along with the male, I don't really want to do that, I have always been independent, I have paid off my own house and run my own life...I like that...

HI. I actually joined match dot com website. I type it out because I don't want anything from my computer going to that website. The reason I'm not taking anymore plunges is one: I got hacked by some jerk I emailed on that match website and had to get my whole computer wiped clean. Two: I'm really bad at choosing guys. A one year relationship ended this past January and my heart broke. Between the two experiences, I feel sad and very distrustful. If I get into another relationship, it's going to be because Mr Wonderful walks into my life and remains a Mr. Wonderful. My last Mr.Wonderful turned into a Mr. Monster.