are you happy right now?
By charlesann
@charlesann (17)
Philippines
6 responses
@ljforte1024 (150)
• Canada
26 Jun 08
Also, just remember that he lost someone too. and even though he may have caused it, you are someone special and know that he has an empty spot too. Pray for him and understand that people come and go...everybody's not going to know how special you are until it's too late. Never sell yourself short and only do things that will not hurt you.
@tezau1 (21)
• Australia
26 Jun 08
This happens to us all
MY wife of 13 yes and I broke up
then I was diagnosed with acute myoloid leukemia
what is important is the fact that I lived thru both these events
look at things in perspective..
do you have children???
do you still breath
can you still love????
continue to live
continue to love
Tez
@underdogtoo (9579)
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
I am not really happy right now. I was ridiculously happy a few days ago and I am not sure what it was about. I had been working hard and when I closed my eyes I would feel a flood of endorphins that made me silly with feeling good. I have no good words for you. It is a wonderful thing when we are abandoned by a loved one, we can then enjoy the misery which can be pretty powerful and addicting. When that begins to bore us then we realize that there are millions of reasons to be happy and an equal number of reasons to be broken up and unhappy. They chose to leave us, we choose to make ourselves unhappy. Cheers!!
@anawar (2404)
• United States
25 Jun 08
I'm recovering from a recent unexpected break-up. I'm learning to accept myself for who I am right now. I know I can't look back to find the person I was before I got into this relationship.
I have to start over again and build a new me.
Maybe my journey will make sense to you and help you as well. Travel lightly. Let go of the past, but take time to mourn the loss.
@Muelitz (1592)
• Canada
25 Jun 08
It is not the end of the world for you. You can busy yourself with other things to take your mind away from your ex-BF. Entertain yourself by watching movies, going out with friends or get busy with work or household chores. If he comes back he is really meant to be with you. If not don't worry ,there are a lot of fish in the ocean and I am sure you are a good person and would find another which would be better. Stay Safe and Keep praying!