Would you ever tell a lie ...

United States
June 25, 2008 12:45pm CST
to protect someone in your family? Well I'm afraid I might have to do it myself. Here awhile back I had an acoustic guitar that a friend gave me, he didn't like it, he said it played awful, no matter how many new strings you put on it he said it still sounded dead to him. So I took it thankfully, and I played it a little, it didn't sound that bad, I thought. Well later on, I bought a new one, and my brother asked me if he could borrow the one my friend gave me. I let him borrow it, because at the time he was playing music in this band and he needed a guitar. I didn't think anything of it, but later on my husband asked me if my brother still had it. I told him he did, then my nephew tells me that my brother didn't have it anymore that he sold it. I couldn't believe he would do that, so I called him and asked him. He said that he sold it to a pawnshop, and that he forgot all about getting it back, he was really apologetic, he kept apologizing and apologizing. I told him that he owed me one then. But to this day I haven't told my husband what happened, it hasn't come up yet, but I know it will. Right now he and my brother aren't on the best of terms because of something else my brother did before. I just know that if I tell my husband what happened to the guitar he will go off on my brother. He already says that if my brother comes around he's going to have a talk with him, and if I know my husband it won't be pretty. I don't know what to tell him if he asks me, I don't want to get my brother in more trouble, because if I do, then my whole family will get involved and my husband will be public enemy no. 1. So have you ever been in a situation where you had to tell a lie to save a family member? If so, what happened and what did you do?
3 responses
@pkc3000 (1266)
• India
26 Jun 08
Dear walijo2008 I have read your topic and I like it. Frankly and honestly speaking sopme times I also tell lie but that lie is for the benefit of others. For example there are about 30 employees where I am working and I am working as Secctt. cadre. One day my boss immediately asked me to call Mr X from Accts Deptt. I telephonically contacted Accts deptt and asked the authority to send Mr X , I have received a msg from accts deptt that Mr X is not available in his seat. If I tell this to my boss he immediately issue a letter to Mr X . After my mind make up I went to my boss's chamber and told him that Mr X is not available at present as he has gone to his son's school to collect his son from the school as school bus is not available to-day. I remembered that day and some how I have managed. I think such lie is not harmful. But in general telling lie is a sin. pkc3000
• United States
26 Jun 08
Thanks for your response...I realize that sometimes you have to tell a lie to protect someone. I'm sure you did what you thought was best at the time. Like you said, telling a lie is a sin, but in my case, I'll just have to ask the Lord to forgive me, because I don't want to cause anymore friction between my brother and my husband.
@snowy22315 (180678)
• United States
25 Jun 08
I cant say that I have. I know other people who have done that though. It seems to be most common between brothers and sisters or moms and dads protecting one of the kids from the other parent.
• United States
25 Jun 08
Yes, it does seem that way between families. I already know what I'm going to say if he ever asks me..lol. thanks
• India
25 Jun 08
Yes I would lie for something good to happen. It sometimes a must for us to lie to make something good and to avoid problems which range in Big. Lie can sometimes save us from anything and lying is a good habit but not be used in all the cases.
• United States
25 Jun 08
I don't like lying, I've never lied to my husband but in this case like I said it would cause more problems if I told him the truth. I wouldn't say that lying is a good habit, but sometimes you can't help it....Thanks