I am depressed, anybody can help me?

Dear Jephone, No one is a loser dear. All of us have our own problems, good days , bad days etc. So we can get through that. I know it is easier said than done, but one can do it. I ahd also faced bad days in my life, actually not days but years.. and that too from my own family. Sometimes I get that sort of treatment even now from my siblings. I feel very bad but do not say any thing about it.. But GOD he'll look into it and decide who should be punished and when. OK so don't worry, work hard, you'll get a job and you can look after yourself. You have friends here at mylot and we can help you too. And killing yourself is no answer. The act is cowardly, and you are not supposed to do that. You have no permission to do that.

hey, please dont say that. You are not a looser, there is always hope and light at the end of evry tunnel remember that. The one who stands tall and fights will always win. Dont you have faith in God, if you do and if you have been true and honest you will get justice dont worry.Just hand in there al will be well soon.

Some times we put our trust in the wrong people, and we get hurt, but life goes on, you learn by each mistake you make. One day he will get just what he gave you and that will be your reward. In one post they said you should slice his tires, or scratch his car, that would be lowing your self to just what he is and you would end up in jail or with a big amount of money to pay him, one more time he would of won against you. You have to believe there is better out there and learn from this mistake. God did not do this to you, he did not force you to keep this guy going till he got what he needed and dumped you, this is the type of guy he is. Where is your family, and why do you not have a job, you are the only one that can turn your life around, not family, friends, only you and you ahve to want to do it, I would think that this guy brought you down and he is laughing so you show him you are way better of a person and start by doing what it takes to make a better life for you, you can sit around and feel sorry for your self or you can get up and do some thing to better your self, I know it seems hard and you are hurt, but life gets better only if we make it better, no one is going to do it for us.

Just look at the brighter side. At this point in you rtime , that you feel terrible just think of millions who are starving, homeless, and wants to live longer yet they have a terrible disease. God will not give us trials unless He knows we can't do it.

You shouldn't feel this way about yourself. NO ONE should make you feel this way. Eleanor Roosevelt said it best when she said, "No one can make you inferior without your consent". That is so true. Your boyfriend wasn't worth it if he just used you. You are not a loser. This is just a test of life. We go through these sometimes. Things will get better.

Hey go and get one some meds that always help... Sounds to me that you need to slash this guys tires or something scratch his car truck... and you arn't a loser

No jephone.You are not a loser.you are only a human like all of us and life you know is not a bed of roses.everyone has priblems.You please stop thinking like that.You are a beautiful person and very soon some one special will realise that and will take care of you.Your life is going to be very good. just hold on and tjhink of all the good things and happy moments and it will give you the energy and motivation to move ahead in your life,my sweet friend.Have faith in God and he will take care of you.Try to surf online for some income,even mylot pays you in cash.soon you will have a job too.Plus we are all your friends here on mylot and we care for you.

come on ,don't be depressed.i won't cheat you

Things that you've lost can be found, but things that you give away, you can never get them back. Think it over, and live a happy life.

I'm sorry to hear that. Please believe that you are young, and tomorrow is beautiful, life is promising. Do you think it is right to kill yourself for the sake of other people and a bad people?

Jephone, you are NOT a loser. Sometimes when you're right at the bottom, the only way you can go is up. Do you have some nice friends? A hobby you enjoy? If you live in a warm place, try going for a walk each day. It really helps brush the cobwebs away, gives you thinking time and really does make you feel a lot better. While you're walking, you can think about what you'd like to do with your life, and about ways to make it happen. I know it seems very hard to be bothered - but it's definitely worth it, because your ex-boyfriend isn't the only boy in the world, although it must seem that way now - and when you are feeling positive and happy again you will attract other positive, happy people and a nice new boyfriend, too. Please try to look on the bright side - even though it seems hard at the moment. There are always brighter days around the corner, truly!

I have been going through a totally tough situation lately and I have a lot of support here from mylot, so you've come to the right place! Having said that, PLEASE READ WHAT I HAVE TO SAY I KNOW HOW YOU FEEL!, please don't stay at home and feel bad, don't kill yourself IT WILL GET BETTER, don't dwell on the ex there are plenty others out there. VERY IMPORTANT: Have a little getaway, go somewhere peaceful and free(free in both ways)...I went to the beach yesterday, a small one and I came back home a new person, I had the beach all to myself. I am adding you as a friend..I'll send you a pm and we can talk...BELIEVE ME I KNOW WHAT YOUR GOING THROUGH!!!!!

hey jephone.. how are you.. do not feel for anything dear.. we are all there for you come on... you know you can do anything without him.. do not think about your past and you a not a loser.. jephone born to win.. cool best of luck for your bright future.. enjoy your life with your friends.. have fun.. take care..

ahhh... don't get to tied up with boys... just go out, have fun.... have no money??? this is the right place to have lots of it... just post some nonsense topics and you'll get paid... no family??? adopt a child or make your own... sperm donors are not that hard to find... kill yourself?? no no no... i've been in that situation before.. even harder than that!! there's no way god's gonna give you problems that would be impossible for you to solve!!! have faith... pray.. "do your best and god will do the rest"

Hello jephone! never lose hope in life have patience, after dawn, dusk should come , after night day will definitely come is'nt it? Don't ever try to end your life its a sin, after births and births we will have got human life, you are very fortunate. make every moment special. Life is very short to crib ok, be happy tell me your problem, i will definitely try to help you! Now please smile, you have got wonderful friends on mylot, who will help you, advice you,and give you moral support.

Think about it the other way. You lost everything and there is nothing else to lose. Now you can do anything and you have no fear of anything. You can do anything now and can achieve anything now. You have to put this anger in your work and have to aim at something BIG. PROVE YOURSELF. Prove you can do anything even without your boy friend. He must realize he missed you. Go Jephone, you can do it. Have a nice day !

Hi jephone can we become friends. jephone killing yourself is not the solution of your problem. everyone face the same kind of problem in there life. everyone get cheated in there life at some point do not taking it hard on yourself. you must give yourself time and must find solution of your problems.