infidelity

Philippines
June 25, 2008 1:14pm CST
have you experienced your spouse to cheat on you?Do you discover that during your relationship with him he also has another girlfriend?how did you cope up with this?Is it ok to give him another chance?
3 responses
@sunkissed (4330)
• United States
25 Jun 08
Well, I did have apartner about that I left about 11 years ago because he was cheating on me. I feel that if a person cheats on you once he will do it again, So I do not think I would stick around to let it happen to me again. I can do bad by myself.Life is much to short to be suspicious of your partner all of the time.
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
yeah,that's what i think.i have to be paranoid all the time,it's not healthy right?
@rane0328 (129)
• United States
25 Jun 08
i've never had that happen, but what i can tell u is that if you decide to give him another chance make sure you are able to forgive him completely b/c if u can't forgive him 100% and its always in the back of your mind then the relationship will b doomed bc there is no truct with no trust there is no relationship
• Philippines
25 Jun 08
thanks for your comment.really appreciate it
• United States
25 Jun 08
I have not had it happen to me but there has been 1 time that I thought my husband was doing something behind my back. We have been married for 11 years and I work the night shift. I came home one morning and seen that there wa a "dating site" that had been logged into on the computer. I was shocked, hurt, and so furious. So I woke his butt up and chewed him a new one, screaming and crying at him. Come to find out, it wasnt him. It was one of his friends that is signed up to one that was checking his profile when he was over at our house that evening. I had been very leary of it for quite some time after that, I had a very hard time believing him.