you are very friendly with a guy ,you come to know hes a gay ,what u do?
By gokoool
@gokoool (65)
India
2 responses
@moonlitmagikchild (22181)
• United States
26 Jun 08
i think it would take a little bit before you could process it and be ok with it if you really were in love with them but hopefully it would survive.. and as far as everyone else thinks screw them!
@greysfreak (1384)
• United States
26 Jun 08
I would no doubt continue to be friends with him. I have known gay guys and they were all so nice. I wasn't that close with them because I have just never had a lot of guy friends, I'm really shy and well.. it's just complicated.
Now if I had a crush on the guy and I found that out I would feel a little sad, but I'd get over it quick and hey, just because a guy is gay doesn't mean a girl can't think he is the hottest thing around. LOL
I remember one time I was at a club and this guy came over and was talking to me, and I was totally shocked, because that never happens. We exchanged aim screen names and all. He was really nice and he was very cute, well, to me--he was gothic, and that's what I like a lot of the time. Anyway, so I look at his profile later on and that's when I realized, he is gay. It honestly never struck me, because to me he was just a friendly, attractive guy.
So I definitely would never stop being friends with someone for that reason. We did lose contact, but it definitely wasn't because of sexuality.